Put your foot down with instructor, tell her current saddle suits all 3 of you for what you are doing at the minute and if and when daughter starts jumping bigger to the point you feel she needs knee blocks then you'll revisit the jumping saddle option again.
Not everyone has endless pots of...
I had this happen once a few years ago when I was bringing my horse back from loan, she was just above the negative cut off and I was offered the same two options. I opted to wait and retest and she was by then definitively negative, however the horse in question had had a negative test result...
My partner and I have 4 cars between us...big towing car (3.5T capacity so not cheap to run day to day), his beloved convertible, and two small runarounds.
The diesel saving on my tow vehicle alone pays for all monthly running costs of my city bug, however we do tend to also use it most weekends...
I've done it within a couple of days....the yard i moved from was always supposed to be a temporary stopgap until a second stable came up at my original yard....as a previous poster said, it soon became apparent the YOs were a touch odd and my original YO managed to squeeze me in somewhere makeshift
Mine are out in a herd at livery, however its a small same sex herd with my 3 and one other. All get on very well and the herd is very stable. Two are shod all round (one of mine and the other livery) and two are barefoot (the other two of mine).
However I have been in a variety of other field...
I'm another who needs an Indian summer.
Three stables to clean out, all my rugs need sorting, I need to have started clipper desensitisation like last month with one, meant to send away one set of clippers to be fixed, trailer needs new brakes/wheels/roof seal....
Mine is not for the faint of heart and I certainly wouldn't put my granny(or the queen!) on her. I've found keeping her busy both in body and brain is very necessary
Personally I think I'd pick #1, assuming it meant I still had enough cash to at least take part in the on site clinics. I know so many people can make it work very successfully without a school, but I'm just not one of them I'm afraid.
Applying the basic principles of homeostasis, the optimum soaking time is likely to depend on how much sugar is in the hay and the volume of water it is being soaked in. At some point, the concentration of sugar in the soaking water will equal the concentration of the sugar left in the hay...