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    I dont know what to do!

    Lots to think about thanks :) I keep veering between PTS and at least then she doesn't potentially end up in a worse situation or attempting everything, but then I worry that its a me and her mismatch and that ill make her worse. Ive never been nervous with horses on the ground before, even...
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    I dont know what to do!

    I have thought about sending her off for schooling and / or looking at swapping to a busier livery yard that does exercise and they ride her in the week, and Ill do weekend, as she definitely wants more work than just an hour or 2 at weekends, but id then need to give up my cob. Hes on part...
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    I dont know what to do!

    I didn't go to see her, I responded to a different add, and when I rode that one it did some spectacular bucks, so they showed me this mare instead. A vet from my vet practice (but not my usual vet) did a vetting on her, and she was passed as fine as fit for what I wanted her for. The dealer has...
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    I dont know what to do!

    Sorry meant to say. I have spoken to the dealer about returning her, but they haven't wanted to know. They offered to swap her for anther one and "pack her off for meat" as they've said themselves she is pretty much unsellable. I don't want another one off them, as since buying her Ive heard...
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    I dont know what to do!

    I bought her from a dealer who transported her to me - upon her coming off the trailer nuts, they said she was a bit stressed but would settle down! When I tried her she was a star, calm, steady and absolutely adorable. I figured it could well be the move, new horses and all sorts, but shes not...
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    I dont know what to do!

    Sorry for the massively long first post. Ive lurked for ages, and could really do with some advice. I brought a mare at the beginning of September. She was / is supposed to be a nice safe steady ride as I wanted to move up from my kick-along cob. From the second I got her she has been a...
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