Recent content by happydaze

Update, all is sorted now to both our satisfaction. I am keeping the horse on and all is fine. Dont really want to say more than that except that she has dealt with things in an exceptionally mature way which only backs up my feeling that it was just that she loves the horse and just hadnt...

Hi yes we used the bhs loan agreement. It mentions visits by the owner to check on welfare but does not mention the owner riding at all. I do understand its a terrible wrench to put you beloved horse on loan and I know she sees him as still her horse. Thats why I have accommodated her visits and...

Thank you so much everyone, its been really helpful and I will let you know what happens.

When is the endurance fun ride please? I havent heard about that one before, thank you

Thank you everyone, brave pants on then it is!

I really dont know what her reaction will be as she adores the horse. I dont like confrontation and thats a problem, its bound to be awkward isnt it. However, she is very happy with him being with me so I guess she wouldnt want to put that at risk.

Thank you, I am trying to keep calm about it but wasnt sure if I was losing perspective! Difficulty is, I have really bonded with the horse.

He is insured for both but I guess it also throws up who would pay the excess if he were injured in her care!

Thats a fair comment as she is a nice girl and possibly doesnt relialize the danger.

I have had him on loan for 6 months. The loan period is 3 years, the period she is at uni. I had no idea she would be back for 6 months. She has been back during the 6 months before and ridden a few times which I was fine with.

I have a horse on full loan where I pay all costs, livery feed shoes chiropractor, insurance etc etc. This has all worked fine and I get on very well with the horse. However, the owner has now finished uni for the summer (For 6 months) and now expects to ride him twice a week. I get on really...