not sure if your joking or not but anyway
you seem very pushy if your girlfriend doesn't want to ride then that is up to her and if you really care about her is shouldn't matter one bit
it is a bit strange you want a girlfriend who can ride i cant understand why it should matter? and if...
i really don't think you have anything to worry about i have worked in a racing stable for years and its very rare you see jokey /stable staff relationships and the few i have seen never lasted long anyway.
you sound young so don't need to worry about marriage anyway, you will be fine don't...
I have been working as a stable lass for a racehorse trainer for years now and I am starting to think I need a different job as I am struggling with the pay and getting a bit old for it :(. but I have no idea what job I could get ? I have no qualifications (apart from horsey ones) am I stuck...