Hehe, I am 5 months pregnant with baby number 2 so it hasnt put me off doing horses and babies but i wouldnt get another horse however a pony is another matter ;-)
My little girl is 2.5yrs and the stages obviously change as they develop. I think you have to embrace kids and horses and although its hard work you can make it fun. Waterproof all in one a must. Backpack i used if leading horse back/forth to yard - now she is a bit bigger i have a fluffly...