These are all incredibly helpful responses, thank you so much.
To answer a few questions,
Yes he has tanked with my instructors present and they did not think too much of it (they are both really good and come recommended by lots of people). One was a reasonably fair spook - lots of things...
Would really appreciate any insights...
I have my first horse as an adult - a 17hh gelding/ warmblood/12 years old who has done a bit of everything. I am lucky enough to be surrounded by lots of supportive people on the yard. However, I am beginning to lose my confidence. Although we are...