Recent content by Moodymare88

T That is awful...it is such a shame that others are experiencing the same. I mean when your 'coach' says to you she is always skint, worried about making an income and wants to be on £100,000 a year...just goes to show all they care about is the money...

That is interesting Rowreach. I find it also very interesting that when i was having issues hacking my horse, she told me it wasn't worth her time or my money for her to help me with it, yet she does hacking confidence clinics/camps? Needless to say, without her help, we have overcome our...

Hi all, so i wanted to provide an update on how things have progressed. It has been a tough year, i moved yards last June and we were very happy and settled, and then last month we were asked to leave due to a change in the YO's circumstances, so we are currently at a yard with no onsite menage...

Thank you. It is really hard, i suppose because we have done so much together and come so far, i feel guilty but it isn't personal at the end of the day. I think that is similar to me, i needed guidance and taking the pressure off for a while, but then i felt she was too controlling. I do find...

I did confront her with the issues I have mentioned on several occasions and asked to meet up so we could discuss in person but have just been ignored unfortunately. I do think her intentions were good for the most part and I’m grateful for her help.

I think that’s similar to me…I was too reliant on her, so lost my confidence and self belief but because she was so supportive and controlling I guess i struggled when she wasn’t there as much?! I would have lessons when she wouldn’t say anything…or challenge me. This evening we had another fab...

She’s also removed me from social media as well but then wants to be friends?! I don’t need someone like that in my life to be honest…life is far too short!

Thank you. That did frustrate me quite a lot. I even tried to explain what the problems were but unfortunately she can’t seem to see she has done anything wrong! I tried to arrange to meet up in person to clear the air and be friends (as that is what she said she wanted) but just get ignored so...

That is actually a good view point, i hadn't thought of it like that to be honest. I guess when you are in the situation, it is hard to see what is going on and i was severely depressed over the winter because i was working through so much previous trauma and i don't like change! I was so...

Definitely. So many people have said how well i am doing since the change but i was also her biggest client, and to send me that message after having such a fab day at an event was not really on in my opinion. It felt like because i was her biggest client and the only one competing, but she also...

Hi All, I started working with a coach who also offered mindset coaching as well in August 2021. I had regular lessons with her, xc lessons, SJ lessons etc up until April really. My mare has been quite tricky and due to a nasty accident a few years ago, which left me dealing with PTSD and...

Yes she has. She had her hormones and ovaries scanned last year and was on Regumate due to a hormonal imbalance and we are going to re-test. She has regular saddle fitter, osteo and physio etc. I have also had a groundwork person come out to help with the hacking...lets just say that she tried...

Thank you. It really is a hard decision as i feel like i want to do everything i can to try, even working with my instructor to take the pressure off me a bit. I do need to make a decision this year though really as to what i am going to do. My other mare wasn't easy by any means, but then i...

Hi All, So i find myself facing quite a huge dilemma. I have had my mare who will be 7 this year from an unhandled 3 year old, she was professionally backed at 4 (came home just before the first lockdown!). In January 2021, i unfortunately suffered a nasty accident when i was leading her and...

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply. I do think it is jealousy, but I guess I’ve had that every yard I have been on, because I do go out and do things, and it doesn’t bother me if I am on my own, I guess people just don’t like it! It is a shame that the horse world has to be like...