Goshka Ringo (sire of Amour G), now standing in France, would give you everything you want and is homozygous for tobiano! I have bred one by him (a mating inspired by Amour G) and she is now rising 6 and is just fabulous!! Better than I ever dreamed and my horse in a million!
I agree - the photos of him online, the stud website, video etc do nothing for him at all! Had I not seen him myself, I wouldn't have used him. In fact, if I'd not been living in Cornwall at the time, I'm not sure I'd have made the effort to even go and see him! My 7yo by him, is really...
I think your first step is to get you mare gene tested, as suggested. If she doesn't carry the red gene and as you want something smaller, then how about Bathleyhills Monet http://www.bathleyhillfarmlivery.com/harrystud.htm
Asking on behalf of a friend (I don't do jumping, but prefer to do it from the safety of the sofa lol). She needs a new BP and is BEing at 100 level and aiming higher. Thinking of an air jacket, but also considering Kan Teqs - any advice gratefully received :)