all the names go in a hat, and each family member picks one, you cant pick your own pet, so the names go back in the hat. Makes for some Christmas fun.
Thankyou for all the replies, I realise the mistake I thought would help, and have acknowledged this. I will get support and pro help. I had never mentioned hitting, and feel ashamed.
Thankyou. He was a difficult loader, but whilst I was on holiday the yard owner took over the loading which has been a success. There was no bullying, I have seen her work.
Thankyou, will get help. I don't see myself as a terrible person , just one who wanted advice, which I of course shall take. I appreciate your helpful reply.
Good evening, My Section D is turning into a serial napper, just today refused to go in one direction, thought I could sit it out, but traffic didnt allow this. Pointed him in the other direction and that was met with a big fat no! Tried to move his feet, praise when he went forward, but no...