How sad. She is trying to manipulate and control you. I would feel exactly the same as you, and was thinking of getting a sharer for my pony - but probably end up in your position. I would write her a letter and explain how you feel, she probably doesn't realise how you are feeling and is...
I would imagine it would be the other way around - although she may be hormonal when in season. But with my pony she was a dragon with foal, possessive and really didn't want to be bothered with being ridden, your horse sounds lovely so I wouldn't worry.
My little mare changed completely - whilst in foal and with foal she was ratty and bad tempered, however now she is really relaxed - when we weaned the foal you could almost see her sigh of relief She was preggers when we bought her but previous to that she had already had a foal, so been...
Bless, you really have to do whats right for you and the pony and of course your son. Horrid though..I've been through this a couple of times and it is never easy
iuHas she been picked for the team...?? if not, possibly jealousy, ignore, if no one else has any complaints then leave it at that. If it is a major issue (which I'm sure its not) then YO would surely broach you.
Smacks to me like green eyed monster.
I would buy from a reputable one, although our little pony came from a dealer and she said she'd had her 6 months, when infact our pony was preggers (we didn't know until 1 month before her foal was due) and when I went back to her she said she'd only had her 6 weeks. However, our pony is...