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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Are you in Warfield? That’s no further than my current place!
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Great, have messaged them! Looks lovely
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    On the limit time wise but not out of the question!
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Currently paying £700 pcm and would rather not go higher!
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Yes all the problems I’m coming across! He only had the one lami bout last spring (the only one in 15 years) and that was entirely due to poor management of the yard, they could have easily caught it earlier but left him out. So usually he’s fine with reasonable grass, and correct management...
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    I found Surrey took longer to get to than Berkshire - more miles out on the m4 but you can get deeper into proper countryside quicker
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Weirdly I’ve found it easier to get out west than SW, out on the a4/M4 - I looked at a yard in Surrey and took me an hour to travel the 11 miles there 😂
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    What to do - sickly horse West of London

    Just looking for hive mind brainstorming I think…so: I moved my horse (cob gelding, horse of a lifetime, had 11 years) to be nearer me (in central london) and he’s currently at a lovely yard in Berkshire. So well looked after and very happy with the place, although just been told it’s being...
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    The grieving process 💔

    Such lovely words. And very similar with my girl - Outlasted original OH, moved from Suffolk to Kent to London with me, went through the major life changes of my late 20s and 30s, was always by my side and such a calming, constant presence. I knew she wouldn't be in my future, but when it...
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    The grieving process 💔

    So sorry for your loss, but your sentiment is so right and something we must remember x
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    The grieving process 💔

    Thank you for your lovely words. I've actually just today received a book I had made from Papier of all my favourite photos of her. Something to look through and remember good times, rather than the memory of her last moments. I don't have any desire to get another dog at the moment, but I'm...
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    The grieving process 💔

    Yes I think you’re all right! I don’t think it helped that literally the morning after I had my old girl pts, my parents lurcher collapsed paralysed with a spinal injury (very weird, it’d been brewing for a while in hindsight but considering he did nothing active to trigger the disc going it...
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    The grieving process 💔

    Thank you all so much for your kind words and advice, it really does help. Having lost her at a ripe old age, it’s not like I’m losing a future, just a past - but she was definitely my soulmate and has been my constant through some turbulent times. I don’t miss having a dog that much, especially...
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    The grieving process 💔

    4 weeks ago today I said goodbye to my best friend, she was 15 and her time had come, but it was still the hardest decision of my life. We spent all day every day together, from years on the yard to her last couple of years pootling in London with me after our lives changed quite significantly...
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