2009 A year of great sadness & joy in finding my angel,long sorry

andreo

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Just back from a break visiting my parents and after moving yards last week, giving my 4yr old Reo two weeks off with everything going on, then getting straight on him and taking him to the new outdoor school in the dusk where he worriedly did as I asked and worked with only a few baby calls to his friend his wonderful attitude has led me to reflect on the year. 2009 was going to be a very special year as I was awaiting our first foal from my Novice event mare that I had started at intro after getting from Holland with little experience. I had been so excited as this foal was going to be my next event horse out of Future Illusion.
Some of you may remember though that my nightmare started 4 weeks before Sorenna was due to foal when she developed metritis laminitis. She had it in the most severe form and both back feet foundered, and I was told she would need to be put down and we would lose them both. My stud vet wasnt giving up so easy though and day by day we aimed to keep her pain free and get her to two weeks before her foaling date to see if we could save the foal. As she had lost her mucus plug we knew she could deliver anytime but the yard where I kept her and the other liveries were fantastic and she was monitered 24hrs a day, whilst my husband frantically drove the country collecting collostrum as she had not bagged up. We acheived the impossible and got her to the two weeks, then another two days but foal was happy staying put, the day came and I could no longer control her pain so I had to make the decision along with my vet to induce her, and at 5pm "Patience" was born. After being tube fed and getting on her feet we had hope, but at 5am she slipped away peacefully as she just wasn't ready yet to come into our world. My nightmare continued when at 7pm that night I had to accept there was nothing else I could do for Soreena and so I had her PTS.
My friend was gone and so was my new dreams and for a few weeks I was lost. 2009 has been a year I will be glad to say goodbye to but because of this tragedy I found Reo. A 4yr old warm blood, just broken and from a dealing yard I was unfamiliar with. He seemed too good to be true, but I had nothing to lose and so took a chance. That was at the end of July. He is my angel and everyday brings a smile to my face with his wonderful loving attitude that I sometimes take for granted with the questions I ask of him. I often will go to sleep at night thinking of Sorenna & Patience and what might have been, and it is then that I remember what a new wonderful friend that has come into my life "Reo".
I would like to thank everyone that helped me through this tragedy, and ask everyone else if you see me when I start to event him or take him out to please understand why I seem like one of those riders/owners whose horse is a perfect angel even when this may not be true
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What a sad year for you tinged with happiness towards the end. You did everything you could for your mare and foal and theres not much more to add to that. Reo sounds lovely and its strange, I lost a mare 4yrs ago to a broken leg in the field and I then got my present mare a month later. Shes definitely not the perfect horse in other peoples eyes but she taught me a lot and we have a strong bond. I guess Reo will be the same for you and I hope 2010 will be a good year for you and him.

Best wishes for you both in the future x
 
Thank you all for your kind words, its a time to reflect but to also remember how wonderful life can be even if it isn't clear at the time, this is when I remind myself that everything happens for a reason, and I am looking forward to what 2010 will bring me and Reo.
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Oh hun, how awful. At least as Sorenna's ghost runs round your fields, her precious baby runs forever at her side. Enjoy your new boy - it sounds as though it was meant to be xxx
 
I have tears in my eyes reading this and wish you every good thing for 2010 and hope you and your angel go on to bigger and better things
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The other two will be waiting at the bridge
 
I have tears in my eyes reading your post, so sad to lose both mare and foal. I am glad you now have Reo and time will help to heal the pain you no doubt feel. The best of luck with the future, here's to what I can only hope is going to be your lucky 2010. xxxx
 
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