A long apology to readers of "very very long yard rant"

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I just wanted to do this post to apologise to anyone who read the mindless dribble of a post i did Monday, Very, very long yard rant (and for the lack of English)
I know it is no excuse but got myself worked up over lots of little things, wanted a rant (common occurence since illness) and with no one around to hear it put it on here instead. In future i will write them on a piece of paper not in a forum!
I also wanted to clear up a few of the actions/reasons for the things i wrote about.
<u>With regards to leaving gelding going bonkers in the field:</u>
I have ONE home contact number for the horses 2 owners (who live at different address), and rang this number on returning home the first time, couldn't ring from yard as didn't have my mobile and there is no phone at yard. There was no answer and no answer phone so assumed/hoped they had just been delayed and were there then. Tried a couple more times after still to no answer. After going back down and seeing he was still out tried three more times, still to no answer.
<u>With regards to not catching him in:</u>
The field exits into the car park and then you double back into the yard. The yard has gates on but nothing before then and car park opens straight onto the road. Having watched gelding being led by both owners he is 'uneducated' to lead to say the least. He pulls away, dances on the end of lead rope then jumps on top of the leader, (this is 'good relaxed to lead' gelding). I currently have zero energy, zero strength (due to illness) and am certain that even on one of his good days i wouldn't be able to hold him, let alone when he is already wound up. If it was my mare id rather turn up to "your mares being going potty in field all day" than "we tried to get her in but she got away and onto the road and ....." (ill leave the end of that sentence to your imagination).
<u>With regards to turning them out together:</u>
They want them done at the same time but they are very unreliable, like not turning up to catch in on that morning. If we took turns ,ie they do mornings, i do evenings, i would be worrying that mare hadnt been done and although sharing duties YM WOULD charge for doing mare in morning.
Have refused to turn them out in the same field as mare is fine with ponies and quiet older horses but if with younger, livlier horses, like gelding, she WILL kick. I also wouldnt trust her not to barge through gate if gelding was coming in first and am sure vice versa if mare was coming in first, and again, with lack of security from road would not be happy with the risk for either party.

Again, sorry for original post and it wont happen again, i promise.
 
Hi im sorry you feel like you have to apologise to anyone, you really dont have to, we all have days like that and after reading it im sure if it had happened at my yard id be ranting too!!
Anyways dont stress about it concentrate on getting better and if you want to rant at all just PM me!!
 
Thank you keltic. I thought i oughta apologise as re-read it earlier and realised how abnoxius i sounded. Im not normally like that.
 
Don't worry at all!

Forums are for ranting
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I had no problem with the rant - you were obviously having a bad day. I just couldn't understand it - but then I am quite old!
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I hope you manage to sort something out. It sounds like a nightmare.
 
Was I the only one who thought, reading it and the answers, why the hell should you be bothered about their horse going mad in the field because you've brought yours in, when they don't?

You don't have your horse for their benefit - its for yours. if you *did* try to bring it in and there was an accident, they'd blame you. Or they'd then expect it all the time and take a lend.

You are at a livery yard, you pay for and are responsible for your horse - no-one elses. Fair enough if you are friends and keep your horses together and have arrangements to take turns.

No-one should think badly of you, you shouldn't have to risk yourself or your mare. if they have a problem, its up to them to sort it and arrange to either be there when you bring yours in, or for the YO to do it and charge them.

I'm annoyed for you, I don't see why people who work hard to pay for their horse, and have little enough time with them as it is but look after theirs well, should be carrying those who can't make the effort!
 
I just have to bear it for another week and a half as new YM starts moving in then, she is coming from approx 15 miles away and all but 1 of her current liveries have chose to move with her, which i think says something about how well run her yard is. Current YM has been very petty about the take over and refuses to talk to new YM even though it was the YO who sorted the change not YM. His horse has broken at least 2 fences and he will not repair them, making more work for new YM and theres already loads to be done. He hasn't told her but we know for a fact that as soon as hes found somewhere he is moving, and he would just go.
(YO isn't horsey, yard was built for ex wife and now is just rented out to make him more money, hence why he found someone who would fill all 15 stables, not 2 after 4 months.)
 
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