Thea
Well-Known Member
It does sound like you are making progress, all be it slowly which is hard to feel anything but frustrated about but it does seem positive. It sounds to me like a confidence thing if he is happy in company and nothing to do with him not being a happy traveler which i originally thought.
I know this is less than ideal as you want to get out solo but if it was me i would be inclined to get some really positive trips out in company for him to gain his confidence travelling and as soon as you have a number of outings clocked up that are completely stress free try him on his own. I would also take him for a drive and unbox back at home rather than somewhere new the first few times so he is back somewhere familiar after going out alone.
My friend had an awful loader and traveler and it was so stressful planning to go anywhere, she too spent time with a loading trainer to try to solve the issue. In the end she just did weekly trips out round the block for no more than ten mins at a time once the loading issues were solved and the horse has slowly gotten better and better. This horse has to go on her own though as she cant be trusted next to anything unless blocked by a stallion partition which her trailer doesn't have.
Just keep going, as frustrating as it feels I do think you will get there. Did you try a mirror in the end?
I know this is less than ideal as you want to get out solo but if it was me i would be inclined to get some really positive trips out in company for him to gain his confidence travelling and as soon as you have a number of outings clocked up that are completely stress free try him on his own. I would also take him for a drive and unbox back at home rather than somewhere new the first few times so he is back somewhere familiar after going out alone.
My friend had an awful loader and traveler and it was so stressful planning to go anywhere, she too spent time with a loading trainer to try to solve the issue. In the end she just did weekly trips out round the block for no more than ten mins at a time once the loading issues were solved and the horse has slowly gotten better and better. This horse has to go on her own though as she cant be trusted next to anything unless blocked by a stallion partition which her trailer doesn't have.
Just keep going, as frustrating as it feels I do think you will get there. Did you try a mirror in the end?