A Very Sad Update but a Great Big 'Thank you' to all HHO'ers

PercyMum

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Dear All

I posted last week about my very poorly horse who was losing weight and appeared to be giving up. I just wanted to update you all but most importantly thank you all for the amazing and generous offers of support, time, feed, hay and general ‘vibes’ throughout this difficult time. It was overwhelming and deeply humbling that so many of you took time to reply or offer PM’s full of so much support and advice to help me. I am sorry I did not reply to you all but please know that it all meant very much to me and really did help.

Sadly, my boy fought the Protein Malabsorption and his Albumin levels went up from 19 to 28by Friday. The vet was thrilled and we thought he was on the mend. Friday afternoon he began to nosedive again and started collicking overnight. He started stumbling badly and began to fall over. His tail stopped working and he didn’t seem to know when he was urinating and he didn’t seem to be able to eat properly. He was put down yesterday evening in the last of the sunshine. The vet thinks he had an aggressive tumour that progressed through to his spinal column and there was nothing that could be done. He was such a big powerful horse that to see him in that state at the end was heartbreaking.

His name was Murphy – The Ginger Ninja. He was 17hh, weighed 600kg and was 15 but the hole he has left cannot be measured. He was the horse that I would draw as a little girl and dream of owning one day when I was a grownup. I bought him off the meat man for £500 because I took one look and knew he was the one. He was the most beautiful horse I have ever, ever seen. He took me to BE Novice level and made me look like I could actually ride. He would be a loony out XC or charging up the gallops and the next minute be a totally safe companion for escorting a youngster out for their first hack or jumping session. He never put a foot wrong and I loved him with all my heart. I just hope he knew that, even when I used to get cross with him and shouted at him. He was devoted to me and I to him. He saved my life more than once and defended me from nasty horses, aggressive dogs and unsuitable boyfriends. He did not deserve to go the way he did and should have had years. I hope and pray that I will see him again. He was, quite simply, the most perfect horse in the world and I honestly would not have changed anything about him. I genuinely believed I was the luckiest person alive to have owned him and the pain he has left by leaving me is immeasurable.

I hope you all have a Murphy in your life – go home and give them a hug for me tonight xxxxxxxx
 
Oh I am so sorry. I followed your other thread and really was rooting for him.

Poor lad :( RIP Murphy.

Hope you are coping ok op. So many hugs xxxx
 
I am so sorry to hear this - I am welling up at work
Keep remembering all the good times you had with him - Hugs XXX:(
 
So very sorry to hear this. Take comfort from the fact that you did everything for him that you could, including making that final decision.

Run free Murphy xx

Will be giving my boy an extra hug tonight xx
 
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I really feel for you but well done for doing the right thing

Have you got any pictures, I'd love to see a picture of your boy

RIP Ginga Ninga
 
Huge huge hugs :( poor Murphy and poor you! He's probably belting round like a nutter with all our (HHOs) old boys and girls who left us all over the years.

You did all that you could and Im sure he appreciated it and loved you as much as you loved him Xxx
 
I am so sorry to hear of Murphy's passing, I followed your other thread and although I didn't comment, my thoughts were with you both. I can say without a doubt he will have known how much you love him and understood why you got cross, you only ever wanted the best for him. I believe when you meet again he will be grateful for the life you gave him, saving him from certain death and giving him years of love and fun. I too have a 17hh beast to love and will give him an extra hug for you. Thinking of you, and Murphy, galloping happily over rainbow bridge xxx
 
I'm so sorry for your loss :( Horses like him stay with you forever, even when they're gone, and he'll have known how loved and worshiped he was.

RIP Murphy.
 
Im so so so sorry to hear about your boy :(
You did the kindest thing you could in such a horrific situation. He sounds so special and I'm sure he thought the same of you.

RIP Murphy, your free now xx

(Hugs) to you OP
 
Gutted for you , i was willing him on so hard. Thank you expect taking the time to come and update us and i hope your other thread will be of use to anyone else who needs it. Your boy could well end up saving another.
RIP Ginger Ninja
 
Beautifully written, biting back tears. I had to do the same thing with my heart horse last year and it is the most horrible thing in the world. You did the best thing by him and made the bravest decision you could make. Hugs, and best wishes to Murphy as he gallops in the forever summer fields. Xxxx
 
RIP Murphy x x you will be in great company up there.
Hugs to you OP i followed your thread whilst on holiday but couldn't post for some reason, i had hoped for positive news. He will have known how much you loved him X x
 
I'm so sorry xxx

I'm another that kept dipping into the other thread and hoping that he would pull through. My horses will definitely get an extra big hug tonight.
 
What a beautiful tribute to Murphy. I'm sure your words will bring tears to your many supporters just as they did to me. As difficult as it was, you were there for him and he must have known that. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
 
I'm so so sorry for your loss. I followed your other thread and had everything crossed for you that he would pull through and I'm so sad that he didn't.

I'm sure he is looking down on you now knowing that you loved him with all your heart and I myself think that you will meet him again.

Great big hugs. I know that the hole that he has left will never be filled but it does get easier with time. I lost my canine version of murphy 5 years ago. I miss her every day but it is easier and I now have my Maxi dog.

RIP murphy. I hope one day I find a horse who I love as much as your mum loves you.
 
I'm so sorry to read such a sad outcome - I followed your previous thread and felt all your emotion. No one could have tried harder. I'm thinking of you xx
 
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