SusieJane
Well-Known Member
I have my horses at home. Two years ago I took on a livery. She had one horse on DIY and another on field livery. I explained my strict worming routine/poo picking/fence checking etc and she was very good. She is very clean and tidy, and we soon became friends.
In March of this year, she was offered free livery for her horse (she'd sold the grass livery one) in return for helping on the farm. So she upped sticks, and went to the farm. She was on her own there, the stable was mile from the field and she wasn't happy. I saw her 3 months later, and she was in the middle of a mental breakdown as she suffers from mental health issues.
My heart went out to her, and I told her to come back, I wouldn't charge her and I'd help her out.
So she hasn't paid any livery, she's had free hay up til now and she's back on her feet. I've just bought a load of hay, and asked her to go 50/50 on it, but she says she's taking next doors off their field as its free (but rank!). She bought the wrong wormer, and when I asked her to change it, argued that it didn't matter what wormer it was! Then took both back to shop and changed my one! She's let down my farrier, and my instructor. I just feel like she's taking me for granted.
Anyhoooo, the nub of the matter is this. I want to ask her to pay livery from next month, but as I'd invited her back, should I?
Also, what chores do you think she should do? She turned her horse out the other day and the electric fence was blown over, but she just left it for me to do, even though my horse doesn't go out in that paddock!
Advice/critisisms welcome. Thanks x
In March of this year, she was offered free livery for her horse (she'd sold the grass livery one) in return for helping on the farm. So she upped sticks, and went to the farm. She was on her own there, the stable was mile from the field and she wasn't happy. I saw her 3 months later, and she was in the middle of a mental breakdown as she suffers from mental health issues.
My heart went out to her, and I told her to come back, I wouldn't charge her and I'd help her out.
So she hasn't paid any livery, she's had free hay up til now and she's back on her feet. I've just bought a load of hay, and asked her to go 50/50 on it, but she says she's taking next doors off their field as its free (but rank!). She bought the wrong wormer, and when I asked her to change it, argued that it didn't matter what wormer it was! Then took both back to shop and changed my one! She's let down my farrier, and my instructor. I just feel like she's taking me for granted.
Anyhoooo, the nub of the matter is this. I want to ask her to pay livery from next month, but as I'd invited her back, should I?
Also, what chores do you think she should do? She turned her horse out the other day and the electric fence was blown over, but she just left it for me to do, even though my horse doesn't go out in that paddock!
Advice/critisisms welcome. Thanks x