DabDab
Ah mud, splendid
No you are not being selfish. TBH, I wouldn't want to sell to this woman, regardless of all the points that have been made by others.
Without wanting to sway with my own views, I have to agree. She seems like a bit of a shark and I'm afraid I don't have much respect for someone who seems to expect a 3yo to be perfect to load (though of course this is probably just a line, but it says something about how she views the OP)