RachelB
Well-Known Member
Thought I had better post in here again not NL but this is a follow-on from this post.
I just re-read this before posting, and thought I had better add a *RANT ALERT*!!
The vet who did the MRI told me in no uncertain terms that our prognosis was very poor for any recovery to soundness. He also said that there were treatments we could try but my vet would call me today to discuss everything (this was Friday's phone call from the MRI vet who Maiden was referred to). So I've just got back from visiting my vet to see where we go from here, and the answer... he doesn't want to say. I think TBH he wants us to give up with her enitrely (based on a 30% chance of recovery) and/or he wants rid of her, having diagnosed the problem he thinks his job is done and he wants no part in her potential rehabilitation and recovery. I TOTALLY understand that the chances of anything working are VERY slim, but I kept telling him over and over that I have no choice, I didn't buy a horse to give up at the first hurdle, and if I don't spend a year or more trying with Maiden then I'll have to spend five years completely horseless (can't afford another now) so I may as well give her a go. Not to mention that she's worth it, she's not "just a horse" because she is also a great friend and such a character... but the vet just didn't "get" it. I am so furious, he didn't even really want to try to explain what we could do to try and help her, he just wanted to dash off and have rid of us. Eventually I managed to shed my usual reserved and shy outer and got a bit more confident, enough to force him to recommend a plan of action (walking 10 mins a day for a month, 20 mins a day another month, 30 mins a day for the third then review case and possibly turn away for another three months before reviewing again) and I also forced a tube of Sedalin from him, "just in case". He was very reluctant about the Sedalin, saying that if I can't handle her I shouldn't be thinking of walking her and should just give up (I can handle her, I just want the Sedalin in case she flips which is VERY rarely, and I think TBH I'm adult enough and have enough common sense to know when to and when not to use the stuff). He also thought that seeing as we don't have the facilities to turn her out 24/7 and we also don't have a horsewalker, that we should give up. I got the impression that had I been incredibly wealthy and had many grooms to do it for me, he'd be happy to help me rehabilitate her. I don't have lots of money and I don't have a groom, but I do have TIME and PATIENCE to be walking her and looking after her! I have enough money to be putting into keeping her even though I'm getting no obvious "use" out of her... he seemed to think that seeing as I can't ride her I'd want rid of her and want to get another horse, or at least want to be able to stop paying livery fees for an un-rideable horse.
Sorry that probably didn't make much sense, glad to have got it out though as I've been fuming all the way home!
So basically the short version is that I'm changing vet to a decent one who is prepared to give her a go and to support me and her. And I'm starting walking her for 10 mins a day, otherwise she's on total box rest. I didn't dare mention anything like the magnetic boots I'm putting on her, I thought he would have laughed! I wanted to just ask if I would be harming her putting them on (not if he thought it would help her as I know what vets are like about magnets and the like) but I thought sod it, I'm putting them on anyway. Seems to me we're on our own here! *sigh* I just hope the other vets have enough room on their books for us!
Thanks for reading if you got this far!
I just re-read this before posting, and thought I had better add a *RANT ALERT*!!
The vet who did the MRI told me in no uncertain terms that our prognosis was very poor for any recovery to soundness. He also said that there were treatments we could try but my vet would call me today to discuss everything (this was Friday's phone call from the MRI vet who Maiden was referred to). So I've just got back from visiting my vet to see where we go from here, and the answer... he doesn't want to say. I think TBH he wants us to give up with her enitrely (based on a 30% chance of recovery) and/or he wants rid of her, having diagnosed the problem he thinks his job is done and he wants no part in her potential rehabilitation and recovery. I TOTALLY understand that the chances of anything working are VERY slim, but I kept telling him over and over that I have no choice, I didn't buy a horse to give up at the first hurdle, and if I don't spend a year or more trying with Maiden then I'll have to spend five years completely horseless (can't afford another now) so I may as well give her a go. Not to mention that she's worth it, she's not "just a horse" because she is also a great friend and such a character... but the vet just didn't "get" it. I am so furious, he didn't even really want to try to explain what we could do to try and help her, he just wanted to dash off and have rid of us. Eventually I managed to shed my usual reserved and shy outer and got a bit more confident, enough to force him to recommend a plan of action (walking 10 mins a day for a month, 20 mins a day another month, 30 mins a day for the third then review case and possibly turn away for another three months before reviewing again) and I also forced a tube of Sedalin from him, "just in case". He was very reluctant about the Sedalin, saying that if I can't handle her I shouldn't be thinking of walking her and should just give up (I can handle her, I just want the Sedalin in case she flips which is VERY rarely, and I think TBH I'm adult enough and have enough common sense to know when to and when not to use the stuff). He also thought that seeing as we don't have the facilities to turn her out 24/7 and we also don't have a horsewalker, that we should give up. I got the impression that had I been incredibly wealthy and had many grooms to do it for me, he'd be happy to help me rehabilitate her. I don't have lots of money and I don't have a groom, but I do have TIME and PATIENCE to be walking her and looking after her! I have enough money to be putting into keeping her even though I'm getting no obvious "use" out of her... he seemed to think that seeing as I can't ride her I'd want rid of her and want to get another horse, or at least want to be able to stop paying livery fees for an un-rideable horse.
Sorry that probably didn't make much sense, glad to have got it out though as I've been fuming all the way home!
So basically the short version is that I'm changing vet to a decent one who is prepared to give her a go and to support me and her. And I'm starting walking her for 10 mins a day, otherwise she's on total box rest. I didn't dare mention anything like the magnetic boots I'm putting on her, I thought he would have laughed! I wanted to just ask if I would be harming her putting them on (not if he thought it would help her as I know what vets are like about magnets and the like) but I thought sod it, I'm putting them on anyway. Seems to me we're on our own here! *sigh* I just hope the other vets have enough room on their books for us!
Thanks for reading if you got this far!