ponymum123
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Ok, here is my problem. My daughter is 11 years old. She has been riding 4 years. She has soft (for a young rider) hands. Pony is 13.2, very fit and strong. Brought him 2 years ago and is ridden in a French link hanging cheek snaffle. He is very handsome and was previously used as a show pony, so ridden in a double bridle, (with a Pelham). He is a very sensitive chap and quite sharp and typically (pony) naughty. For flatwork he can be cheeky but goes well in the snaffle. He is also ridden with a running martingale. Now here for the problems. Out hacking - due to past rides and lack or brakes, he has been ridden in a Pelham; he has been great, but still slightly difficult to stop.
Two weeks ago we took him cross country schooling and he was so fired up and excited with very little brakes. We tried again the next day and he went bonkers. All he wanted to do was bolt away from everyone and go back to the gates. He was jumpy, stressed and to be honest completely out of control. No bucking just flat out gallop/bolt, even away from the other horses. An older rider tried him and even she said he was impossible, apparently he was holding the bit between his teeth, turned and just bolted back to the gate. The whole session was draining and my daughter was exhausted physically and mentally. I am so worried as this behaviour was really out of character for him. Yes, he tends to want to go fast and brakes have been an issue, but he just seemed to snap. My biggest worry is the bit is just too strong or painful for him and he really got upset, he looked scared and that is the last thing in the world I would ever want to do to any pony. So we stopped.
Jumping in an arena he gets very excited and strong and my daughter is having difficulty in slowing him down. She jumps in the snaffle and he has been ok ish. Last weekend, for the first time, he shoved his head up in the air and just flew around all over the place like a tank, flying past the jumps and getting really stressed and fired up. When he jumps his ears are forward, he clears them easy. He just goes towards a jump with such enthusiasm and speed, that my daughter has zero control.
Bits tried tom thumb no difference
Cherry roller no difference.
I dont want a stronger bit, just the right bit! If anything, I think we need to look at something a lot less severe than the Pelham. I honestly believe it either hurt him or frightened him. Whether he has bad memories of this bit from his past or not I dont know.
My daughter has done lots and lots of schooling and flatwork, walk trot transitions, walking and trotting over poles, controlling his paces etc. He just does not want to trot or even engage in a steady canter over jumps.
I just thought for the past 3 months we have given him a daily calmer in his feed as he was getting pretty hot at shows. His teeth are checked very regularly and the dentist said he has great teeth and gums.
Any help or suggestion would be gratefully accepted.
Two weeks ago we took him cross country schooling and he was so fired up and excited with very little brakes. We tried again the next day and he went bonkers. All he wanted to do was bolt away from everyone and go back to the gates. He was jumpy, stressed and to be honest completely out of control. No bucking just flat out gallop/bolt, even away from the other horses. An older rider tried him and even she said he was impossible, apparently he was holding the bit between his teeth, turned and just bolted back to the gate. The whole session was draining and my daughter was exhausted physically and mentally. I am so worried as this behaviour was really out of character for him. Yes, he tends to want to go fast and brakes have been an issue, but he just seemed to snap. My biggest worry is the bit is just too strong or painful for him and he really got upset, he looked scared and that is the last thing in the world I would ever want to do to any pony. So we stopped.
Jumping in an arena he gets very excited and strong and my daughter is having difficulty in slowing him down. She jumps in the snaffle and he has been ok ish. Last weekend, for the first time, he shoved his head up in the air and just flew around all over the place like a tank, flying past the jumps and getting really stressed and fired up. When he jumps his ears are forward, he clears them easy. He just goes towards a jump with such enthusiasm and speed, that my daughter has zero control.
Bits tried tom thumb no difference
Cherry roller no difference.
I dont want a stronger bit, just the right bit! If anything, I think we need to look at something a lot less severe than the Pelham. I honestly believe it either hurt him or frightened him. Whether he has bad memories of this bit from his past or not I dont know.
My daughter has done lots and lots of schooling and flatwork, walk trot transitions, walking and trotting over poles, controlling his paces etc. He just does not want to trot or even engage in a steady canter over jumps.
I just thought for the past 3 months we have given him a daily calmer in his feed as he was getting pretty hot at shows. His teeth are checked very regularly and the dentist said he has great teeth and gums.
Any help or suggestion would be gratefully accepted.