LaurenyLou
Well-Known Member
Lovely mare, brief background: Brought as a 3yo from a dealer. Unknown history. Owner had a ''trainer'' come in when the mare was 4. Did all the desens. work, sat on then one day mare just decided to rear when ''trainer'' was on board (at immobility) and was pulled backwards onto a fence...
Needless to say owner said bye bye trainer, and put mare out for a year to forget about it all.
Mare now 5, and came to me a little while ago. Was very nervy, and horse orientated (more so than your average). Had no regard for people. Did plenty of groundwork, and gained respect and understanding. Then moved onto tack and desens work. All happy, going well. Used a weighted sack (20kg).
Seemed ready so started leaning and sitting - fine. Last few days we have been moving onwards. However today, she had enough. Bronked across the school and had me off a number of times. Removed saddle (fitted professionally) and used a rope halter eventually. And neck strap. Still not happy, so went back to densenitising and leaning. Made a fuss and put her back.
I am not feeling getting back on tomorrow as landed square on my head a few times and felt it down to my hips..
Options for tomorrow are to forget about today and go back again. But as the vet has cleared all issues, saddle fits etc I am tempted to get someone lighter (ideally who hasn't just had a c sec too!) to get back on and sit it out (as we used to do when we had ponies!).
I know it is hard without seeing how she reacts, but WWYD? YO is a professional and has suggested the latter..
Needless to say owner said bye bye trainer, and put mare out for a year to forget about it all.
Mare now 5, and came to me a little while ago. Was very nervy, and horse orientated (more so than your average). Had no regard for people. Did plenty of groundwork, and gained respect and understanding. Then moved onto tack and desens work. All happy, going well. Used a weighted sack (20kg).
Seemed ready so started leaning and sitting - fine. Last few days we have been moving onwards. However today, she had enough. Bronked across the school and had me off a number of times. Removed saddle (fitted professionally) and used a rope halter eventually. And neck strap. Still not happy, so went back to densenitising and leaning. Made a fuss and put her back.
I am not feeling getting back on tomorrow as landed square on my head a few times and felt it down to my hips..
Options for tomorrow are to forget about today and go back again. But as the vet has cleared all issues, saddle fits etc I am tempted to get someone lighter (ideally who hasn't just had a c sec too!) to get back on and sit it out (as we used to do when we had ponies!).
I know it is hard without seeing how she reacts, but WWYD? YO is a professional and has suggested the latter..