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Mongoose11

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I wasn't given this advice but found this out the hard way.... I guess it still counts as the threads purpose is to spread good advice right...?


If your trainer doesn't want to teach you about 'feel' then you need to find a new trainer.



After almost two years of making no progress with an instructor I changed and the difference in 3 months is unbelievable. So unbelievable.

So, so cross I didn't know any better.

ETA - I didn't mean for it to come out THAT big :)
 

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I wasn't given this advice but found this out the hard way.... I guess it still counts as the threads purpose is to spread good advice right...?


If your trainer doesn't want to teach you about 'feel' then you need to find a new trainer.



After almost two years of making no progress with an instructor I changed and the difference in 3 months is unbelievable. So unbelievable.

So, so cross I didn't know any better.

ETA - I didn't mean for it to come out THAT big :)

Actually, I don't think a statement like that can be in print that is too big!!!! Such an important thing to realise :)

I think the most important thing I've learnt is: patience, patience and more patience...
 

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Don't take to heart what people say on forums. The person watching you is the one who sees and the one you pay to teach you.;
 

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Keep your feet in front of your *rse and a leg either side and you should be fine! (referring to my first cross country event!) :)
 

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If you can't keep yourself straight & in the correct position don't expect the horse to either.
It's nearly always the riders fault/mistake.
Get the horse moving forwards first, its nearly always the root cause of problems.
Don't start a battle unless you know you're right & can win it.
You end up where you look.
Between you & the horse one of you should know more.
Spending time on the basics is essential, in an old bosses words 'if you put down foundations for a shed, don't be suprised if you have to start over again to build a house, put down perfect foundations for a skyscraper & you can build till you run out of bricks'. Basically meaning if you start right, only physical ability of horse & rider will be the limit.
 

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My instructor said that to achieve a good relationship with your horse you should make a deal with them: that you will never behave like a predator and they will not behave like a prey animal.
 

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Well seeing as nobody else has mentioned this little gem, although I'm sure we've all been told it once or twice...


SIT BACK!!



Usually in response to a horse acting up haha! :D
 

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Just back from my Tuesday lesson and having asked the question I should contribute as well. So having had time to think...

Where you look is where you go and.LOOK UP!

Today's discovery is that learning is not a linear process!
 

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'Don't be afraid, work hard, persevere'

This advice was nothing to do with riding, its from 10 years of kung fu/chi kung training - but its the best advice I've ever had for anything, and particularly for horses!!

And the other little gem from kung fu, also applicable with horses is:

'And breathe.'

;)
 
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