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there is someone down my yard who for some reason is trying to stop me competeing!!! a couple of weekends i was going to a gymkanna/clear rounds and was suppose to be hacking with another girl for my yard, anyway 2 days before this girl comes up to me and say x has offered me a lift in her horsebox so i'm not hacking now, now x knows full well my horse doesn't hack on her own so i was stranded. ( a very nice person when out of there way to come and picked me up and take me to that one) x then spent the morning winding my horse up by walk her horse up and down past her (not the end of the world)

i thought she had got over this and was talking to me and we had started to get on okish again.

anyway i get down to the yard today to find that x has been talking to another person i hacking to a show with tis weekend, (telling her that we will be hanging around all day and generally trying to put her off going) the lady is still find about going. but what i don't get is why x is going out of her way to stop me competeing???
 
she sounds jelous and is acting rather childishly

Im guessing she isnt the type of person you could have an adult conversation with about this?

Perhpas its just coincidence?
 
competition!!

She obviously feels threatened by you and rather than have a good competition and enjoy a bit of sporting rivalry she's trying to eliminate you as a competitor and therefore sabotage your chances!!

......I am a very suspicious person!!
 
Cripes, thats not very nice. Confront her about it, in a nice way, you'll feel better for getting it off your chest and hopefully she will tell you what her problem is, if she doesnt then erm, rise above it, and try (outwardly) not to be bothered by it.
 
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