bit stuck - suggestions please

oliviacharley

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Im a bit stuck with what to do....my friend has suggested that I move my horse to her yard due to the fact he is a youngster, I dont have anyone to ride out with and he has been playing up due to me only being able to school him in the field where he grazes. Although I really like the idea I do not have alot of money - im training in my job and am not too sure if I should. I basically rent a 2 acre field with a stable, barn and indoor stable and a 10 acre field in the summer where I school him. I have a little 30 yr old pony who keeps him company and I am not too sure if she would like to be back in a field of 10 other horses pushing and kicking her about.
My plan was maybe to just move him to the yard and to keep my pony in the small 2 acre field with a couple of sheep as friends.
I have lost a bit of confidence and although I have been riding for 20 yrs on lots of different horses, have competed etc I just am not too sure I like riding out on my own, and get a little worried when he plays me about in the road and rears when lunging. I have managed to keep him calm and collected recently but he is starting to mess me around and I dont want to end up with a horse I cant ride in years to come. I would prefer to be riding offroad, riding out with more experienced horses and having people around me who know what they are talking about.
At the moment I pay £100 for both fields, stables and barn but have to pay out for hay/bedding in the winter. The riding is straight onto a 50mph road with quite a few big lorries and then onto quiet lanes and I do not have anywhere to really school him apart from the top section of the 10 acre field.
The yard would be £35 a week which would include hay and bedding, grazing, offroad riding, school and my friend.
I dont know what to do...? I have had bad experiences with yards, my horses have been kicked and hurt in past and people have been horrid. I am not sure if I should just go for grass livery at £15 a week but it also would mean seperating my pony and horse...ahhhhh....suggestions please...
 

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I wouldn't hesitate in moving. Sounds as if it's time to further your boy's education, and sometimes you need help to do that.

It may only be temporary - for the summer perhaps. Then you go back to your place.
 

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I don't know whether you should move to this particular place as only you know what the place feels like. But I do think that you need some company very much so you should be somewhere that there are other people around that you can share your experiences with.......
 

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I had the same problem with my yougster and didnt want to pay for all 3 of them to be at livery so I advertised for a hacking companion, and asked around for a school to hire. now I school 2x a week and can hack out in company and alone. It would be hard for a 30 yr old pony to adjust to moving and hard for you to look after 2 in different places. Good luck
 

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Thanks everyone - fantastic advice...I didnt think about advertising for a companion rider and a local school...what a great idea. I actually will approach a private yard around the corner from me to see what they would charge me to use their sand school and if they would allow me to use it as I would not want to move my old pony and would want the best for my horse and would only be able to pay for the basics at the yard...I have also had a reply from a freelance instructor who is able to train me.
Thanks again everyone - I was really stuck and you have given me some great suggestions...:0)
 
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