AppyLover1996
Well-Known Member
Hi Guys,
Just some afternoon musings as I'm soon to start re-bitting my rising 2 year old in prep for the summer shows.
We've done work with the bridle (minus the bit) already and he's perfectly happy for me to pop it over his head, sort out his forelock and straighten everything up, as well as adjusting the settings so it fits his face as perfect as can be. I always make sure to check in with him regularly to make sure that he's happy for me to go to the next step and always give tons of praise when he does well.
I've previously popped a bit in his mouth ( complete one off and just to see what would happen really) and he was happily taking the bit out my hands and bridling himself (fab I thought!) so I ended it after only 10 minutes, gave him tons of praise and left him be for a few weeks as it was crappy weather and I didn't have the time with work.
Fast forward to a few days ago where I reintroduced the bridle (minus the bit) - as expected no problems or issues and happy to have it popped on him - however it was a different story when I then tried bridling him with the bit attached. He threw his head up so high that I struggled to get the bit in his mouth (I did manage eventually - didn't rush or hurry him just kept nicely asking him to open his mouth and tons of praise when he did) and then straight after he started chomping on his bit like mad. It's a 5" happy mouth apple flavour bit and he's worn the 4.5" version beforehand. I took the bridle off and gave him lots of praise for letting me eventually pop the bit in his mouth, however when I went to try again, he did the exact same response of chucking his head up and moving around to avoid the bit going in his mouth. Once again, I was extremely calm and patient, talking to him and giving him lots of reassuring pats to let him know that we were gonna take things at his pace and not rush, to which he seemed to calm down and once more I managed to successfully pop the bit in his mouth. I didn't rush him through any steps and did things the exact way that I did them the first time, used the same bridle (it still fits him fine so I'm happy it's not too small a bridle causing the problem) and the same bit but a slightly bigger size, made sure the yard was quiet so he had no distractions etc and generally made it as pleasant as it can be.
My brain is pondering why he would have such a different reaction to bitting the second time around - it's obvious that he is trying to tell me something as he's a very willing chap and usually game for giving anything a good go.
A few of the people on the yard have told me he's taking the piss and already pushing his luck to which I thanked them for their opinion and asked them why they thought he was taking the piss - they couldn't give me a straight answer and walked off muttering about how I'm going to ruin a perfectly good horse by being too soft and a pushover (I wasn't going to be rude as you never know when you might need help but at the same time I'm already kind of the odd one out as I do a lot of things different to everyone in terms of training etc). I'm thinking that perhaps the first time bitting him he didn't really take in what was going on, hence why it's now such a shock to his system as he genuinely doesn't remember the prior experience, or that something is going on in his mouth which is making taking a bit a really meh experience. He's up to date with his vaccines and teeth and nothing was noted on his dental when it was done, which is also puzzling as I would have thought any mouth issues would show up even if you weren't particularly looking for them as the mouth is a finite space.
Cup of tea and biscuits to you all who have read the above - any advice is gratefully received - I will add that for the moment I am not going back to bitting him as I don't want to create an issue and want to make sure that I have everything in place and as planned as it can be before trying again
Just some afternoon musings as I'm soon to start re-bitting my rising 2 year old in prep for the summer shows.
We've done work with the bridle (minus the bit) already and he's perfectly happy for me to pop it over his head, sort out his forelock and straighten everything up, as well as adjusting the settings so it fits his face as perfect as can be. I always make sure to check in with him regularly to make sure that he's happy for me to go to the next step and always give tons of praise when he does well.
I've previously popped a bit in his mouth ( complete one off and just to see what would happen really) and he was happily taking the bit out my hands and bridling himself (fab I thought!) so I ended it after only 10 minutes, gave him tons of praise and left him be for a few weeks as it was crappy weather and I didn't have the time with work.
Fast forward to a few days ago where I reintroduced the bridle (minus the bit) - as expected no problems or issues and happy to have it popped on him - however it was a different story when I then tried bridling him with the bit attached. He threw his head up so high that I struggled to get the bit in his mouth (I did manage eventually - didn't rush or hurry him just kept nicely asking him to open his mouth and tons of praise when he did) and then straight after he started chomping on his bit like mad. It's a 5" happy mouth apple flavour bit and he's worn the 4.5" version beforehand. I took the bridle off and gave him lots of praise for letting me eventually pop the bit in his mouth, however when I went to try again, he did the exact same response of chucking his head up and moving around to avoid the bit going in his mouth. Once again, I was extremely calm and patient, talking to him and giving him lots of reassuring pats to let him know that we were gonna take things at his pace and not rush, to which he seemed to calm down and once more I managed to successfully pop the bit in his mouth. I didn't rush him through any steps and did things the exact way that I did them the first time, used the same bridle (it still fits him fine so I'm happy it's not too small a bridle causing the problem) and the same bit but a slightly bigger size, made sure the yard was quiet so he had no distractions etc and generally made it as pleasant as it can be.
My brain is pondering why he would have such a different reaction to bitting the second time around - it's obvious that he is trying to tell me something as he's a very willing chap and usually game for giving anything a good go.
A few of the people on the yard have told me he's taking the piss and already pushing his luck to which I thanked them for their opinion and asked them why they thought he was taking the piss - they couldn't give me a straight answer and walked off muttering about how I'm going to ruin a perfectly good horse by being too soft and a pushover (I wasn't going to be rude as you never know when you might need help but at the same time I'm already kind of the odd one out as I do a lot of things different to everyone in terms of training etc). I'm thinking that perhaps the first time bitting him he didn't really take in what was going on, hence why it's now such a shock to his system as he genuinely doesn't remember the prior experience, or that something is going on in his mouth which is making taking a bit a really meh experience. He's up to date with his vaccines and teeth and nothing was noted on his dental when it was done, which is also puzzling as I would have thought any mouth issues would show up even if you weren't particularly looking for them as the mouth is a finite space.
Cup of tea and biscuits to you all who have read the above - any advice is gratefully received - I will add that for the moment I am not going back to bitting him as I don't want to create an issue and want to make sure that I have everything in place and as planned as it can be before trying again