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[ShowJumperBeckii]

Well i have seen these post about me and id just like to say
how on earth do you know im not doing all the schooling excises at home? and just not videoing it?
You get angry cause i dont reply ? maybe im busy im 14 so im probaly out with mates
You get annoyed cause i cant spell? maybe i have a problem and then you bully me about it

yes i ask QUESTIONS for HELP and i AM taking YOUR advice but jeez give me 5mins to get it sorted
like alot of you suggest jumping excises well i cant do that everyday can i?
only once a week so im not going to be able to do them all straight away
and yes im not the best riding but i bet some of you on here aint the best either?
i came on here for help not to be bullyed and called a troll muppet ect ect ..

and another thing yes i dont like second hand never had never will dont make me a spoilt brat just cause i have everything brand new
as for jumping some one said i jump everyday? well u jump once a week normaly maybe twice depends on shows ect. i dont know were you get this stuff from but half of its not true
like i never said i was a great rider who jumps 120cm i just said i jump 120 never said i was amazing at it
yes i have alot it improve on but common these comments aint going to me or anyone know were really

 

[Montyforever]

Tbh, im only a few years older than you and ive been exactly where you are (in "real" life not on the forum) At 14 you think everyones out to get you, but i do agree there has been some real nasty posts about you

If i was you id slink out the forum, not that youve got any less of a right to use the forum than anyone else, but if your unhappy with the way your being treated its probly for the best, theres lot of other horse forums

Hope that makes sense

Hanna x

 

[touchstone]

"You get angry cause i dont reply ? maybe im busy im 14 so im probaly out with mates"

When people take the time and effort to reply politely to your threads, then I think it is only fair that you bother to read them and say that you have, people on here are often very busy too! If this is the first time that you've been alerted to some of the comments then it would appear that you haven't even read the threads that you started!

 

[HarrietLong]

Ohhhhh, see now I comprehend why people do not like you.

When I was 14, and if I had as much as you appear to have, I wouldn't "be out with mates" all the time, I would be taking advantage of the horse and all the "brand new" stuff my parents had given me. Forgive me for sounding like a grandma here (I am only 18), but at just 14 you come across as having a serious attitude problem.

As others have said you have asked for advice, they have provided, you have ignored. But that is probably due to the fact that at 14 you think you know everything.

As for the spelling, I appreciate you may be dyslexic - however, instead of "going out with mates" so much, maybe you should do something towards helping your spelling. Not only will it make your posts on here more legible, but it will help you far more in the future than "being with mates" 24/7.

 

[BSJAlove]

when i was 14, i was having lessons and competing BSJA on a pony i was given labeled as dangerous. she was far from it and given half a chance to relax and have fun, she was fine. she came to me in a pelhem, standing martingale etc and had no topline. i had no idea what i was doing if im honest but i got help with a fantastic instructor and its made me a much better rider today.

i think people are so quick to judge you because you come across as snobby and a bit of a joke. (no offence intended) but your posts are now more of entertainment value and make very good reading!

 

[Flicker]

Give this poor girl a break. She's only 14 - probably half the age of most of you who are being so horrible to her.

Didn't your mothers ever tell you that if you didn't have something nice to say to someone, don't say anything at all??

BSJAshowjumper - you crack on with what you are doing, take the sensible advice where it is offered and ignore the rest.

 

[Pixxie]

PMSL BSJAlove, sorry just the way you put the last bit

and i have to say i agree, im not far in age from you, and you should count yourself very lucky everything you have is brand new and bought for you, i want brand new it comes out of my account. i just think that its a real shame your mates take priority over your horse and using this wonderful brand new equipment.

anyway illbe quiet now and sit back with my popcorn (sweet) anyone else for a nibble?

 

[michelleice]

Was hoping this fell to 3rd page but someone brought it back to life, Not going to comment as i think whole forum is getting bored of this now so best we all forget and just get on with the forum

 

[BSJAlove]

PMSL BSJAlove, sorry just the way you put the last bit

and i have to say i agree, im not far in age from you, and you should count yourself very lucky everything you have is brand new and bought for you, i want brand new it comes out of my account. i just think that its a real shame your mates take priority over your horse and using this wonderful brand new equipment.

anyway illbe quiet now and sit back with my popcorn (sweet) anyone else for a nibble?

ill join you for some pop corn. talking of which, when do i next get to see your boys? (sorry OP for hijacking your post a bit) im having Ted withdrawal symptoms!

 

[Pixxie]

well so i should think he is a rather lovely hehe, whenevr you fancy it tbh, marleys going into horsepital on weds so after that lol PM though dont want to get told off for hijacking xxx

 

[reindeerlover]

I'd like to take this opportunity to discuss the weather (it rained for an hour earlier and knocked my tomato plants off the shelf) and the problems I am having with my boiler (no hot water and making funny grinding sounds). Does anyone have any advice?

 

[Pixxie]

yes i do send it to cambridgeshire, ive been raindancing for at least 10mins now, and im still dry and slightly more tired now

 

[BobbyMondeo]

Oh dear

I think you have to not take anything people say to you on here to heart. Non of us on here know exactly what everyone does with their horses and when, we can only comment on what we read.

I dont really think people are annoyed about you not posting after everyone has posted or spelling the odd word incorrectly. Its the fact that your posts, esecially this one, are quite deffensive and that gets peoples deffenses up rather quickly and its quite childish.

This is an adult forum thay many people look for genuine advice on problems. The constant posting about trivial things that you know already or have asked us already. Also you have to be prepared for difference in opinions, it is an open forum afterall.

Just take the good advice and thank people for it and ignore everyone else.

I'll take some of that popcorn Pixxie =D

 

[reindeerlover]

yes i do send it to cambridgeshire, ive been raindancing for at least 10mins now, and im still dry and slightly more tired now

Well it's gone now, I'm very sad to have lost it except for the havoc it caused to the poor tomatoes. Best of luck with your rain dance- it does help if you do it in the nude....just sayin.

Any more help with the hot water? What happened to the haribo from last night?

 

[alfie95]

Unfortunately the horse world can be a very bitchy one and in my experience people can be too quick to judge. I dont think its possible to judge someone by how they come across on a forum.

 

[BSJAlove]

ahh yes, well pointed out farrierlover. everyone got their rocks????

 

[Montyforever]

I'd like to take this opportunity to discuss the weather (it rained for an hour earlier and knocked my tomato plants off the shelf) and the problems I am having with my boiler (no hot water and making funny grinding sounds). Does anyone have any advice?

On the subject of tomato plants .. mine keep groooooooming and grooooooowing and theyve out grown the canes when the hell are they gonna gimmie some 'matoes?

 

[Bop!]

Well it's gone now, I'm very sad to have lost it except for the havoc it caused to the poor tomatoes. Best of luck with your rain dance- it does help if you do it in the nude....just sayin.

Any more help with the hot water? What happened to the haribo from last night?

Only fried eggs left I'm afraid

 

[horsecrazy25]

Farrierlover - Sorry 2 hear that you have not got any hot water and the rain attacked your tomatoes! I would get a boiler man out to look at your boiler. x

 

[reindeerlover]

MF, they will give you matoes when they are good and ready, thankfully I have the droopy type (100's and 1000's) rather than climbers and there are green ones on there already (unless they are now smoshed on the ground ).

Bop, or should that be BOP! I will take the fired eggs, they aren't so bad. I'll see you some doritos but I've eaten all the dip.

HC, thank you for your kind advice the builder man who put in our posh heated towel rail t'other day has been to look at it but it wasn't making the scary noises til after he left and he just told me to bleed the radiators

P.S That made me actually chuckle out loud

 

[Holly Hocks]

Well I was one of the people who criticised you yesterday because I couldn't understand your spelling and grammar. However, well done you, because this post is much clearer and easier to understand. I like the fact that you keep coming back. It shows strength of character. I think you do take on board what people say. Perhaps you could pick one of the ideas given to you about the schooling - some really good ones were given yesterday about pole work, and then work on it for 2-3 weeks and then come back to the forum to tell everyone what you have tried and how it has improved you and your horse.....I think someone suggested some flatwork schooling which involved working with poles as well which sounded great. I will certainly be trying it with mine, just to vary their routine. Good luck!

 

[Montyforever]

MF, they will give you matoes when they are good and ready, thankfully I have the droopy type (100's and 1000's) rather than climbers and there are green ones on there already (unless they are now smoshed on the ground ).

Hehe Im starting to wonder if they sold me tomato plants at all! Massive yellow flowers but no sign of 'matoes

They where bought on the internet by my nan :O so they could be anything ..

 

[horsecrazy25]

That made me laugh Farrierlover about the radiators bleeding lol x

 

[reindeerlover]

MF, are you sure they're not these;

http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgu...mages?q=sunflower&hl=en&sa=G&gbv=2&tbs=isch:1

HC, I tried stabbing them repeatedly but they don't bleed. What am I doing wrong?

 

[horsecrazy25]

Farrierlover - I don't know if you stabbed a human they would bleed so why not a radiator?? strange x

 

[Montyforever]

MF, are you sure they're not these;

http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgu...mages?q=sunflower&hl=en&sa=G&gbv=2&tbs=isch:1

Aha the root of my problems









Joking Nope, theres a higher leaf to flower ratio

 

[Mickeymoo]

I admire you BSJA for keep coming back and 'throwing yourself to the lions'

I don't, I write a little post and then crawl back under a stone and hope I don't get pulled to bits.

xx

 

[horsecrazy25]

Awwww Mickeymoo - If i did something wrong and got my head bitten off i would be the same go and find a rock i hate falling out with people!! x

 

[Sarah Sum1]

There are not many 14 year olds that take advice given to them. Teenagers know best. ( I know this becasue I have a 15 nearly 16 yr old daughter)

I think some people are being rude. But OP needs to learn to take advice on board.