). I didn't really feel that I had a special 'bond' or whatever you want to call it, until I needed a wee when out with my grey. So I handed her over to be held by someone else (who she knows) while I popped in to the toilet. Well she tried to come with me and was most put out that she couldn't. As soon as I opened the door to come back out, she let out the biggest neigh and was actually really pleased to see me even though I had no food. 
to begin with and above all enjoy your horse Talk to them throughout the process in a calm and soothing voice. I have also heard that grazing in hand is good but I have never tried this.
Find your horse's scratchy spots if he has them. That's been a big thing with my horse. He's almost like a dog when he asks to be scratched. Although one disadvantage is that his favourite scratchy spot is on his quarters so when he's in his stable and after having chin and shoulder scratches, he often presents his ample back end for scratches too. The lovely thing is though that he will now stay lying down when I go into his stable and this morning we had morning cuddles which is just absolutely wonderful and a testament to the trust he has. I've had him just over a year though and I really think it takes that long to totally bond.
You will also need to adjust your ways, its a 50/50 relationship you now 
Are you going up almost everyday because he is on full livery? (I hope so)
In my opinion (and my opinion only) having a horse on full livery is like going to a posh riding school! If you don't have the time and commitment to see to your horse yourself then .... well that's another post im sure
Don't worry about the telling off all the time. You are just getting used to each other and testing boundaries. When I first got Gizmo we went through about four lead ropes in two days! on the second day when he broke the lead rope AGAIN!! I really shouted at him and pulled him back to his tie up place .. well the look of total devastation on his face that I had told him off so harshly ...... made me melt so I realised that although he is big and a bit opinionated he is also incredibly sensitive to how you deal with him .. just an example of how you bond and grow together
and what do you mean by ajust my ways? Like how and why? Thanks for your adviceI would say don't look at it as you being negative, you have to be assertive otherwise he will not respect you! Just make sure you reward him when he is being good... He had to learn right from wrong
Thanks, will deffinatly take your advice for rewarding him more when he's not being bulshy. That way i won't feel i'm telling him off ALL the time
If, instead, you focus on rewarding him with a nice scratch and a good boy when he's doing the right thing, he understands that's a good thing to do and he'll do more of it. When he comes to associate you being there with nice things happening, he will be more willing to work with you even on things that he might not at first understand.
Passers-by used to turn up their iPods... Its nice not to just go up and 'work him' then leave.
So when you're hand grazing, and want to move on, you don't want to have to be tugging away at the leadrope.Well done, glad it is working out for you
One of the most useful things you can teach a horse is "head up"
Teach it first when you're nowhere near the grass. Just apply a little pressure on the lead rope and say "head up". As soon as head moves upwards at all, release the rope and praise and scratch. Repeat, until head comes up really easily. Keep practising, then practise on short grass. Do the same - head up, praise - and walk a few steps and allow them to graze again (I have an "eat" signal - he's not allowed to eat until he sees me pointing at the grass). Then do "head up" again, praise and move on to next grazing spot. Then, once that's working well, move on to longer grass. Horse should lift head as soon as signalled.
It looks really impressive, and makes hand grazing a more enjoyable experience for both parties