Natpillai
Well-Known Member
Apologies in advance for this being so long, but I'm desperate for any advice so want to give full background!!
I'm having a bit of a crisis after this weekend's BD. I've had current horse for 2 1/2 years now. He's bred as a showjumper (Emilion & Darco lines) and has fantastic paces although when I got him he didn't know what to do with all the power so was a bit 'skitty' and person before me had been totally over-horsed, scared of the power so hung onto his mouth (which ended up cut and ulcered). Anyway, worked hard (6 months in hackamore) to correct that and build up a good relationship, started jumping him BS (low level) and did ok but stupid me got over-zealous with feeling all the scope and went too high, too soon. Basically knocked all his confidence with the showjumping as the canter wasn't good enough and I pushed him too fast for his brain to cope (not something I'll ever forgive myself for and I've had to live with the consequences).
Decided to drop him right back down again and although he was going ok, was very inconsistent (easy double clear one day, then eliminated at second fence the next). So I decided to go right back to basics with the flatwork - take a full year off the jumping and focus on really establishing the ground work (yes, realise I should have done this right at the start and did, to an extent, but having never had a horse with this amount of potential, stupidly got carried away and overdid it with the jumping).
Started having lessons with excellent instructor (still with her now) and really came on leaps and bounds. Started doing low level unaff dressage and going really well - judges love him and his paces are to die for. So decided to go BD and although he consistently gets over 60% he's capable of geting 70+ every time. The problem I have is spooking.
He's always been horrifically spooky (not sharp, as some people said about him, just looks at everything). I've done a lot of work getting him to move off my leg etc. and he'll do it fine at home, but out at a competition he just locks up (despite plenty of working in, during which he'll go great). He spooks at the boards, the judge, the markers, everything and turns into this incorrectly bent, tense in the back, crooked mess who's totally behind the leg. I've been trying so hard and getting him out as much as possible, putting spooky things around the arena at home to work him past etc. and my instructor has been helping me - working on shoulder-fore etc. to use if he's really spooking during a test.
Yesterday went and just did a prelim and 2 novices and after the prelim I was just ready to give up - went in and literally would not go closer than 2 metres to the boards. Most awful test ever with not a single straight movement. We ended on 55% - I realise this may not seem so bad to a lot of people but the only reason we even got that was due to the flashes of nice work he showed when circling, centre line (i.e. away from the boards) and the fact that he has nice paces. He did get better in the novice tests but I'm just getting so disheartened (and broke!) with every outing - mostly because he is such a talented horse and i find it so frustrating that he won't show that. I can't afford to keep doing 3 tests every time out just so that he *might* go ok in the last one and I really don't know what to do. I'm really getting fed up of seeing 'very nice horse with lots to offer - will be great once more established'.
Sorry, turned into a bit of a rant but I'm just desperate for any advice from anyone who's had to deal with a spooky horse that just won't let you ride it when it goes in! Is it time for me to give up and send him to someone better, or are there some helpful tricks you know of, or should I go to a clinic for a week or two, or try to go to a dressage rider's for a few weeks to really focus? I really really want to do the work myself (obviously with any help available) and we have such a good relationship now - I don't want to give up on him as I know it's in him and I'm working so hard on him - and he has come on so much but after a year of general disappointment that he's not showing his potential I'm at a loss and feeling extremely down hearted!!
Sorry this is so long - cookes and cream haagen dasz for those who get this far....
I'm having a bit of a crisis after this weekend's BD. I've had current horse for 2 1/2 years now. He's bred as a showjumper (Emilion & Darco lines) and has fantastic paces although when I got him he didn't know what to do with all the power so was a bit 'skitty' and person before me had been totally over-horsed, scared of the power so hung onto his mouth (which ended up cut and ulcered). Anyway, worked hard (6 months in hackamore) to correct that and build up a good relationship, started jumping him BS (low level) and did ok but stupid me got over-zealous with feeling all the scope and went too high, too soon. Basically knocked all his confidence with the showjumping as the canter wasn't good enough and I pushed him too fast for his brain to cope (not something I'll ever forgive myself for and I've had to live with the consequences).
Decided to drop him right back down again and although he was going ok, was very inconsistent (easy double clear one day, then eliminated at second fence the next). So I decided to go right back to basics with the flatwork - take a full year off the jumping and focus on really establishing the ground work (yes, realise I should have done this right at the start and did, to an extent, but having never had a horse with this amount of potential, stupidly got carried away and overdid it with the jumping).
Started having lessons with excellent instructor (still with her now) and really came on leaps and bounds. Started doing low level unaff dressage and going really well - judges love him and his paces are to die for. So decided to go BD and although he consistently gets over 60% he's capable of geting 70+ every time. The problem I have is spooking.
He's always been horrifically spooky (not sharp, as some people said about him, just looks at everything). I've done a lot of work getting him to move off my leg etc. and he'll do it fine at home, but out at a competition he just locks up (despite plenty of working in, during which he'll go great). He spooks at the boards, the judge, the markers, everything and turns into this incorrectly bent, tense in the back, crooked mess who's totally behind the leg. I've been trying so hard and getting him out as much as possible, putting spooky things around the arena at home to work him past etc. and my instructor has been helping me - working on shoulder-fore etc. to use if he's really spooking during a test.
Yesterday went and just did a prelim and 2 novices and after the prelim I was just ready to give up - went in and literally would not go closer than 2 metres to the boards. Most awful test ever with not a single straight movement. We ended on 55% - I realise this may not seem so bad to a lot of people but the only reason we even got that was due to the flashes of nice work he showed when circling, centre line (i.e. away from the boards) and the fact that he has nice paces. He did get better in the novice tests but I'm just getting so disheartened (and broke!) with every outing - mostly because he is such a talented horse and i find it so frustrating that he won't show that. I can't afford to keep doing 3 tests every time out just so that he *might* go ok in the last one and I really don't know what to do. I'm really getting fed up of seeing 'very nice horse with lots to offer - will be great once more established'.
Sorry, turned into a bit of a rant but I'm just desperate for any advice from anyone who's had to deal with a spooky horse that just won't let you ride it when it goes in! Is it time for me to give up and send him to someone better, or are there some helpful tricks you know of, or should I go to a clinic for a week or two, or try to go to a dressage rider's for a few weeks to really focus? I really really want to do the work myself (obviously with any help available) and we have such a good relationship now - I don't want to give up on him as I know it's in him and I'm working so hard on him - and he has come on so much but after a year of general disappointment that he's not showing his potential I'm at a loss and feeling extremely down hearted!!
Sorry this is so long - cookes and cream haagen dasz for those who get this far....