Walrus
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Just looking for some words of wisdom on developing a contact. New horse, only 5yo, big and chunky with limited balance and strength. He's forward and enthusiastic (read, feels like a runaway steam train!) And only going in the school a couple of times a week.
My question is (and we are going to get some professional help).... what the flip am I supposed to do with my hands. I've always ridden horses with a more downhill tendency but this chap is a head up kind of guy (I think using his neck to balance himself). If I try and slow down and half halt we go inverted and his head comes right up. If I don't take a contact he will truck round with his head up but not dramatically (but muscle-wise bot really what you want). I am desperate not to fiddle / pull but similarly I do want to be able to have a contact and not just flop round with long reins. Do I just trust the process, focus on rhythm from the body, do lots of turns and circles and try and get my inside leg on (currently goes faster) or do I need to try and maintain a contact even if he argues.
I sound like an idiot, I promise I'm not but I'm terrified of mucking this up as I really rate the horse and currently he's very forgiving!
My question is (and we are going to get some professional help).... what the flip am I supposed to do with my hands. I've always ridden horses with a more downhill tendency but this chap is a head up kind of guy (I think using his neck to balance himself). If I try and slow down and half halt we go inverted and his head comes right up. If I don't take a contact he will truck round with his head up but not dramatically (but muscle-wise bot really what you want). I am desperate not to fiddle / pull but similarly I do want to be able to have a contact and not just flop round with long reins. Do I just trust the process, focus on rhythm from the body, do lots of turns and circles and try and get my inside leg on (currently goes faster) or do I need to try and maintain a contact even if he argues.
I sound like an idiot, I promise I'm not but I'm terrified of mucking this up as I really rate the horse and currently he's very forgiving!