Do you belive in what goes around comes around???

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Well like it says in the title really!
I have been wondering if it is true!
I have had what I thought was a best friend for the past 4 years, and have stood by her through thick and thin no matter what happened!
Well I have found out that she has been lieing about me to other people, and making things very unpleasant for me in general!
I am so upset and angry and can prove she has been lieing with written evidence, but my other friends who don't belive her say!
You shouldn't have to prove your innocence to real friends and what goes around comes around!!!
So sad and upset and angry at the moment about it all.
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people like that usually find it comes back to get them in the future. That's when you can sit back & enjoy it. I know it is horrible though when you thought they were a friend and you trusted them.

I had it happen to me with a work colleague just over a year ago. It cost me my job at the time, 3 months later it cost her her job too. I walked into a better job, she is still unemployed
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I have had the misfortune to have a person like this in my life.

Revenge is a waste of time and effort.

Just be sure of the fact that "she'll get hers..." one day.

It always happens!
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Oh chick, ((big hug))

Yes, what goes around does come around. My old employer screwed over alot of people (still owes me £1200 wages) and he was a real nasty prick. Not so long ago he was in a nasty car accident and spent quite a while in hospital
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I absolutely agree with that - went through a very similar situation and I believe that I am the fortunate one as I have good friends and a super family and the only person that they'll end out hurting is themselves.

You will be a stronger person from this and when you look back you'll just feel sorry for her - attention seeking that's what it boils down to.

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Sorry, I don't agree with what goes around comes around in general. Some people escape bad things (esp if they have pots of money).
 
I'm waiting for "what goes around comes around" to settle on my ex-husband. I have had the most unbelievable crap in the almost six years since he left - mother with short term memory problems/dementia, only child (daughter) with osteosarcoma -adolescent bone cancer - had to deal with this totally alone (she's now fine and back to being a horrible teenager!)...and him.....moved to New Zealand with new woman whom he has since married (he's even changed his name), bought small holding with various livestock..........but he's reduced my daughter's maintenance because he's earning less money in NZ..................but has cattle etc etc...........People keep saying "what goes around comes round" but it just seems to get worse for me!
 
That sounds really dreadful.
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You must be a very strong person having gone through all this. I hope things get better for you. Don't know what else to say?
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All Very Best Wishes to you and your family, samx
 
Definitely although, as others have said, it sometimes takes a while!!
A 'friend ' of mine has been quite selfish and is very mean - even though she has more money than most of us - and now she is beginning to realise what people think of her. Now she needs a friend and is finding it hard to find anyone to help her. It is really not surprising when she has not helped anyone in the past!
 
Yes, this really is dreadful! Not "Oh, my car wouldn't start this morning!" or "My horse wouldn't work in an outline today"....puts it all into perspective, doesn't it? But hey, this is a New Year.......and it's going to be two thousand and GREAT!!!!
 
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