Erehwemos
Well-Known Member
I will try to keep this as brief as possible
Ellie has been kept alone for the last two years of her life, up until October 2008. Before that time, she was turned out with various horses and ponies of both sexes (at our own yard, all belonged to us). The 'dominant' force among our little herd was always Pippa, our elderly Welsh A - the others all kowtowed to her, and she used to squirt like crazy at them all
Ellie was perhaps second in the pecking order, and occasionally squabbled with Pippa, but there were never any problems to speak of.
When we moved to the new yard, Ellie went out with two mares, one with whom she instantly bonded. There was lots of squealing and pawing the air, but they got on really well - the other mare always looked for Ellie when she wasnt there, although Elz definitely wore the trousers. The other pony in the field is a bit of a loner, but again, there were no problems. They all stayed together in a big field over the winter, perfectly happily.
There are six mares at the yard, and YO wants them all grouped up together for the summer so that the winter fields can be rested. For the past fortnight, Ellie and pony friend have been one side of electric fence whilst the other four mares are the other side. They have all been acting very strangely towards her; there is natural curiosity, of course, but they all squirt at her as soon as she looks at them, and she does a wonderful stallion impression of trotting, neck arched beautifully, along the fence line. There is a bit of squealing, but it seems to be more on the part of the current, previously undisputed 'boss' of the field than Ellie. I have also noticed that Ellie will turn away from the fence and graze quietly, whilst the others will queue up at the fence line, watching and squirting
YO has commented that it seems to be taking a long time for them to get used to each other, and she says she's never known the girls all act so mareish towards a new arrival, not ever. It has been suggested that I should try putting Ellie on Regumate in case she is sending off weird vibes to the others, but there is no way I am going to do that - her behaviour now is no different than it has always been, and I do not want to go pumping her full of unnecessary hormones just because she appears to be dominant....
Longwinded I know, but would you say that this type of behaviour is fairly normal in a horse with a strong personality, or am I deluding myself? I'm of the mindset that it would be best just to let them all out with each other now and get any squealing/jealousy over and done with - the pecking order will soon be re-established, and if that means that Ellie will become the new 'boss' then so be it - but I dont think YO intends to take the fence down for a good few weeks yet. Are some mares just born to be an 'alpha'?

Ellie has been kept alone for the last two years of her life, up until October 2008. Before that time, she was turned out with various horses and ponies of both sexes (at our own yard, all belonged to us). The 'dominant' force among our little herd was always Pippa, our elderly Welsh A - the others all kowtowed to her, and she used to squirt like crazy at them all

When we moved to the new yard, Ellie went out with two mares, one with whom she instantly bonded. There was lots of squealing and pawing the air, but they got on really well - the other mare always looked for Ellie when she wasnt there, although Elz definitely wore the trousers. The other pony in the field is a bit of a loner, but again, there were no problems. They all stayed together in a big field over the winter, perfectly happily.
There are six mares at the yard, and YO wants them all grouped up together for the summer so that the winter fields can be rested. For the past fortnight, Ellie and pony friend have been one side of electric fence whilst the other four mares are the other side. They have all been acting very strangely towards her; there is natural curiosity, of course, but they all squirt at her as soon as she looks at them, and she does a wonderful stallion impression of trotting, neck arched beautifully, along the fence line. There is a bit of squealing, but it seems to be more on the part of the current, previously undisputed 'boss' of the field than Ellie. I have also noticed that Ellie will turn away from the fence and graze quietly, whilst the others will queue up at the fence line, watching and squirting

YO has commented that it seems to be taking a long time for them to get used to each other, and she says she's never known the girls all act so mareish towards a new arrival, not ever. It has been suggested that I should try putting Ellie on Regumate in case she is sending off weird vibes to the others, but there is no way I am going to do that - her behaviour now is no different than it has always been, and I do not want to go pumping her full of unnecessary hormones just because she appears to be dominant....
Longwinded I know, but would you say that this type of behaviour is fairly normal in a horse with a strong personality, or am I deluding myself? I'm of the mindset that it would be best just to let them all out with each other now and get any squealing/jealousy over and done with - the pecking order will soon be re-established, and if that means that Ellie will become the new 'boss' then so be it - but I dont think YO intends to take the fence down for a good few weeks yet. Are some mares just born to be an 'alpha'?
