Dreading tomorrow - vets coming for my youngster...

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To cut a very long story shortish, the vets are coming tomorrow to see Tatty, my 3 yr old Connemara. He's had problems for a while and we don't know what the actual diagnosis is and the only further course of action to find out is to send him away for some very expensive tests, to which the vet says the outcome in his opinion wouldn't be good anyway. Tatty isn't insured and we've spent over £2k already. We don't have another £5k to spend with another 7 on the yard as we head into winter.

His problems started at backing - reluctance to move forward when ridden, although very good on the ground, unhappy to turn, very bad on circles etc etc. Then he seemed to get worse when not ridden, and could barely walk down hill etc etc. The vet has done everything he could, nerve blocks, scans, xrays, pain killers, joint blocks etc and at first said OCD, then something else, then something else again. He now thinks it is something neurological affecting control of his hind legs. He said Tatty would not be safe as a ridden pony and would never pass a vetting. All this on a gorgeous 3 yr old, with the nature of a saint, who was meant to be my daughter's first horse after ponies in a couple of years.

Anyhow, the upshot is that the vet advised pts, but as I am unable to spend out for big tests on him I felt I would be selling him short so have asked for the vet to come back with his partner (who we know and trust) and for them to do another work up and get their opinion straight and if they reach a unified decision then I will go with that.

I have decided that if he is in unmanageable pain, or if the condition is considered to be degenerative then he will be pts. If he is just 'faulty' but not in pain and not likely to get any worse, and it isn't something that we can work on or fix, then I'll try to find him a companion home - like a rescue centre where the horses aren't loaned out as I'd hate someone to think one day that they'd slap a saddle on him and give him a go... I can keep him on my yard for a few years but at 3 he could obviously be around in 20+ years and at my age I won't have a yard at that time and his future would not be secure.

Sorry for my ramblings, just off loading I think. I've been so wound up by this today. It had me in tears this morning as he didn't want to come in with the others and just walked off on his own into the morning mist to eat alone. I thought he knew what I was thinking.

No need to reply, thanks for reading, fingers crossed for Tatty please. :confused:
 
What an impossibly difficult time for you. I know you said no need to reply but I wanted to say I have my fingers crossed for Tatty. He is lucky to have you as an owner.
 
I have decided that if he is in unmanageable pain, or if the condition is considered to be degenerative then he will be pts. If he is just 'faulty' but not in pain and not likely to get any worse, and it isn't something that we can work on or fix, then I'll try to find him a companion home - like a rescue centre where the horses aren't loaned out as I'd hate someone to think one day that they'd slap a saddle on him and give him a go... I can keep him on my yard for a few years but at 3 he could obviously be around in 20+ years and at my age I won't have a yard at that time and his future would not be secure.

That sounds pretty much what I would do also. Perhaps reconsider in a few years if necessary, as I'm not sure about donating animals to rescue centres, when they are struggling to accomodate genuine rescues.
It is always a difficult decision to make., particularly for a young horse, but IMO quality of life has to be the deciding factor.
All the best to you and the horse.
 
OP - first big hugs, you must be going through hell.

Then if you can bear it - read this blog:

http://danceswithgrace.blogspot.com

This horse was written off with very similar sounding issues to your horse. Ended up on a meat lorry.

Now is a happy, healthy ridden horse that is learning how to do a bit of everything. A joy to own, I consider myself blessed.

Also read http://smartiesdiary.blogspot.com/2010/05/twelve-weeks-and-one-day.html

this horse was about to be PTS after extensive vet treatment which had failed. He is now a happy riding horse and good enough for competition.
 
That sounds pretty much what I would do also. Perhaps reconsider in a few years if necessary, as I'm not sure about donating animals to rescue centres, when they are struggling to accomodate genuine rescues.
It is always a difficult decision to make., particularly for a young horse, but IMO quality of life has to be the deciding factor.
All the best to you and the horse.

Thanks everyone for your kind and supportive replies.

Please don't think that I'm thinking of offloading him on a rescue centre as such - the one we have in mind takes animals of all types but only max of about 10 equines and they can be sponsored to stay there by their old owners so more like a retirement home sort of set up. They aren't horses rescued from neglect or such, most are willed to the centre. He couldn't go if he was going to go down hill and require huge expenditure but if he was happy to live out his days there then he would be a suitable candidate. Sadly this is all dependent on them having a space but I have been told by another vet (their centre vet) that they were two down on numbers so i just thought I'd call them if I have to. It could mean a secure long term future for him which is something I'm not really in a position to do.

As I sit here of course, I can't help thinking we won't get that far.

If I get a chance tomorrow pm I'll update you all on how we got on. Thanks again everyone. x
 
Bless you, good luck tomorrow, hope you don't have to make a hasty decision, can imagine how sad you felt this mornning as if he was reading your mind, heartbreaking, hugs and good vibes :-(
 
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