Firewell
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Hi,
I have started having dressage lessons with Jae to try and get us focused back on work and to get us back on track after our pregnancy break. I thought I would start with the dressage lessons first before moving on to jumping because he came into work from his break unfit and stiff and cantering like a plank
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I am feeling really frustrated with him and myself because he has been a bit naughty and I don't feel as confident as I used to
. I have had half a dozen lessons now and I can feel a big improvement which is good. He is more stable and light into the contact and much more supple already. However he has also thrown his toys out the pram a couple of dramatic times and I don't know if this is part and parcel of progressing. I have never really focused on dressage much. We have scraped round some Novice BD tests. Prelim (or training level here in the states) we have pretty much down and reguarly get over 70% so it is time we moved on but I have always been more interested in jumping, as he is really good at it.
Jae has been known to be a bit explosive, jumping he can have a bronc if he gets excited. He is one of those that you have to jump a couple times a week to keep him calm as he just loves it so much and he is super at jump off's, he will turn and jump off half a stride without batting an eye. Dressage he has always been really calm but then I have never pushed him. He can be lazy on the flat and likes to sit behind my leg which doesn't help.
Anyway back to the dressage... My trainer has said we have potential to be competing at Medium (or 3rd level) next year and she wants us to come out at Ele in the spring so this is what we have been working towards but it is making Jae really hot! We have been working on getting him in front of the leg with lots of different types of lateral work and really making him take my outside rein on the left which he finds hard and bending on the right which he finds hard. When he finds it hard, I feel him start to bubble underneath me (you know that feeling when they go tense and suck back and you know they are about to go airborne!). If I take off the pressure straight away, i.e let him fall out through the shoulder or stick his head up for a moment I get back control but if I continue to push him he sticks two fingers up at me and bucks.
For example. Last week in my lesson we were working on our right canter and spiralling in and out of the circle, and I was trying to keep my right rein as solid as possible to get him to give into the right and pushing his quarters with my left leg to keep him from popping his ribs out. He is getting more arsey and then a lorry takes it's air breaks off behind the hedge just as we were cantering past and Jae just bloody leaps 7ft in the air, all four feet off the ground and give it all he has in the most enormous buck ever. Thankfully I managed to spin him round on a tight circle and he stops but I am so shaken my RI has to get on him. She canters him around and he goes to be arsey but she has the timing down in a way I don't (FEI level dr rider) and she manages to get him working really well and there's no way he is going to do it with her.
Then this week, we were working on shoulder in to medium trot on the diagonal. It is very windy and he was doing it really well. Giving me a nice shoulder in and then moving off my leg super into a nice Medium. He was really lifting his shoulders and it felt great... Then he starts to find it quite exciting this showing off medium business and on the right rein (it's always on the right rein he's a ****), I feel him start to bubble and half way through the medium he becomes slightly unbalanced and that's it, he breaks into this horrid slow humpy canter, I leg yield him to get him out of it and back to trot and he sticks two fingers up at me again and broncs. I hate it as he makes me feel like I am about to fall off but I spin him in a circle, right and then to the left and he stops and goes forwards. We took it back a step after that just doing some forwards and back in trot to give him confidence that he can control himself and then we finished with some nice canter on the left and right where he was actually bending and not making me feel like he was going to do anything.
The problem is every time I seem to have a lesson or I try to push him in anyway he bucks. He never used to do this before his break! My husband says he is getting back into the groove of things and re learning our partnership and all this stuff. Also I feel a bit more clingy and nervous than usual because of having babies ect. It is really frustrating me.
We have had a few wins since him coming back into work. For instance the first time I rode him in a field he went all tense and horrid and I had to keep him on a 15m circle gradually moving him across the field because I knew if I rode across it in a straight line he was going to do one. Now he walks and trots round it very nicely and calmly so he is getting better there. The first time I took him out on a hack (first time he had hacked for two years as our old yard didn't have off property riding as on a main road) and I had to be put on a lead rein! Seriously, he was just all over the place and I was frightened he was going to slip or come down on the road, can't do my one rein stop on tarmac! Last weekend was the first time I went out all on my own with him and he walked down the lane and back and across a stubble field without one hint of a spook and we past some scary stuff including a huge 10 horse lorry people were herding yearlings onto on the side of the road, a lorry and some spooky crates piled up high and laden with fruit on the roadside so I was really pleased with that and we felt like our old selves again.
Therefore I am hoping this exploding in our lessons is something we also will get over. I feel like we have some good, well behaved rides and then he will have a day where he is a dick and I have to dig really deep to be brave and not let it affect me. Jumping wise I have only popped him over an upright a couple of times because I know because he hasn't jumped for a while that he will be very excited and I am trying to build up to it slowly so as not to provoke the beast so to speak! I also figured that if he's not at the stage where he can hold himself together at canter in our dressage lessons he is not ready to be jumping anything more than a simple fence.
It doesn't help that I can only ride 3/4x a week. He needs working every day really. Also he lives out, which is lovely in a way because he is so low maintenance but also it means he isn't coming in to be handled every day.
I had the vet out to check him to make sure it's not pain and the vet couldn't find any pain responses along his back or legs or feet and he watched him on the lunge and apart from the vet having to chuck sand at his arse because he was being so damn lazy which then prompted a complete bucking fit the vet couldn't see anything of any significance in the way he moved. Even the vet was surprised by he bucking fit. Your lad is normally so chilled out he said! Well yes he normally is but he is being a turd at the moment :/.
So I suppose my questions are 1. Can progressing in dressage make them more hot and reactive. 2. Does it sound like I am doing the right things and 3. Is there anything obvious I should be doing to get him over this phase that I am missing and 4. Reassurance? I feel like a rubbish, nervous rider and I bloody hate it. I got asked out on a fun group hack and I had to say No because I knew I would probably have gotten bucked off if I went. I want to get back to the stage where I can go off and have a canter with some friends and not feel like I might die :/.
Oh also I have been doing a bit of in hand work with him when I have had some spare time. Natural Horsemanship type stuff to get him respecting me on the ground because he kept stopping while being led and not moving! He also kept coming into my space and trying to grab my shirt with his mouth or walking into me. He's 10 by the way and he is a nice tempered horse, he should know better but it's like handling him as a 5yr old again!
Sorry this is hugely long!
Here is a video of him poncing in the field looking amazing if anyone is bored and wants to see.
https://www.facebook.com/alice.macgregor1/videos/10153554108360210/
I have started having dressage lessons with Jae to try and get us focused back on work and to get us back on track after our pregnancy break. I thought I would start with the dressage lessons first before moving on to jumping because he came into work from his break unfit and stiff and cantering like a plank
I am feeling really frustrated with him and myself because he has been a bit naughty and I don't feel as confident as I used to
Jae has been known to be a bit explosive, jumping he can have a bronc if he gets excited. He is one of those that you have to jump a couple times a week to keep him calm as he just loves it so much and he is super at jump off's, he will turn and jump off half a stride without batting an eye. Dressage he has always been really calm but then I have never pushed him. He can be lazy on the flat and likes to sit behind my leg which doesn't help.
Anyway back to the dressage... My trainer has said we have potential to be competing at Medium (or 3rd level) next year and she wants us to come out at Ele in the spring so this is what we have been working towards but it is making Jae really hot! We have been working on getting him in front of the leg with lots of different types of lateral work and really making him take my outside rein on the left which he finds hard and bending on the right which he finds hard. When he finds it hard, I feel him start to bubble underneath me (you know that feeling when they go tense and suck back and you know they are about to go airborne!). If I take off the pressure straight away, i.e let him fall out through the shoulder or stick his head up for a moment I get back control but if I continue to push him he sticks two fingers up at me and bucks.
For example. Last week in my lesson we were working on our right canter and spiralling in and out of the circle, and I was trying to keep my right rein as solid as possible to get him to give into the right and pushing his quarters with my left leg to keep him from popping his ribs out. He is getting more arsey and then a lorry takes it's air breaks off behind the hedge just as we were cantering past and Jae just bloody leaps 7ft in the air, all four feet off the ground and give it all he has in the most enormous buck ever. Thankfully I managed to spin him round on a tight circle and he stops but I am so shaken my RI has to get on him. She canters him around and he goes to be arsey but she has the timing down in a way I don't (FEI level dr rider) and she manages to get him working really well and there's no way he is going to do it with her.
Then this week, we were working on shoulder in to medium trot on the diagonal. It is very windy and he was doing it really well. Giving me a nice shoulder in and then moving off my leg super into a nice Medium. He was really lifting his shoulders and it felt great... Then he starts to find it quite exciting this showing off medium business and on the right rein (it's always on the right rein he's a ****), I feel him start to bubble and half way through the medium he becomes slightly unbalanced and that's it, he breaks into this horrid slow humpy canter, I leg yield him to get him out of it and back to trot and he sticks two fingers up at me again and broncs. I hate it as he makes me feel like I am about to fall off but I spin him in a circle, right and then to the left and he stops and goes forwards. We took it back a step after that just doing some forwards and back in trot to give him confidence that he can control himself and then we finished with some nice canter on the left and right where he was actually bending and not making me feel like he was going to do anything.
The problem is every time I seem to have a lesson or I try to push him in anyway he bucks. He never used to do this before his break! My husband says he is getting back into the groove of things and re learning our partnership and all this stuff. Also I feel a bit more clingy and nervous than usual because of having babies ect. It is really frustrating me.
We have had a few wins since him coming back into work. For instance the first time I rode him in a field he went all tense and horrid and I had to keep him on a 15m circle gradually moving him across the field because I knew if I rode across it in a straight line he was going to do one. Now he walks and trots round it very nicely and calmly so he is getting better there. The first time I took him out on a hack (first time he had hacked for two years as our old yard didn't have off property riding as on a main road) and I had to be put on a lead rein! Seriously, he was just all over the place and I was frightened he was going to slip or come down on the road, can't do my one rein stop on tarmac! Last weekend was the first time I went out all on my own with him and he walked down the lane and back and across a stubble field without one hint of a spook and we past some scary stuff including a huge 10 horse lorry people were herding yearlings onto on the side of the road, a lorry and some spooky crates piled up high and laden with fruit on the roadside so I was really pleased with that and we felt like our old selves again.
Therefore I am hoping this exploding in our lessons is something we also will get over. I feel like we have some good, well behaved rides and then he will have a day where he is a dick and I have to dig really deep to be brave and not let it affect me. Jumping wise I have only popped him over an upright a couple of times because I know because he hasn't jumped for a while that he will be very excited and I am trying to build up to it slowly so as not to provoke the beast so to speak! I also figured that if he's not at the stage where he can hold himself together at canter in our dressage lessons he is not ready to be jumping anything more than a simple fence.
It doesn't help that I can only ride 3/4x a week. He needs working every day really. Also he lives out, which is lovely in a way because he is so low maintenance but also it means he isn't coming in to be handled every day.
I had the vet out to check him to make sure it's not pain and the vet couldn't find any pain responses along his back or legs or feet and he watched him on the lunge and apart from the vet having to chuck sand at his arse because he was being so damn lazy which then prompted a complete bucking fit the vet couldn't see anything of any significance in the way he moved. Even the vet was surprised by he bucking fit. Your lad is normally so chilled out he said! Well yes he normally is but he is being a turd at the moment :/.
So I suppose my questions are 1. Can progressing in dressage make them more hot and reactive. 2. Does it sound like I am doing the right things and 3. Is there anything obvious I should be doing to get him over this phase that I am missing and 4. Reassurance? I feel like a rubbish, nervous rider and I bloody hate it. I got asked out on a fun group hack and I had to say No because I knew I would probably have gotten bucked off if I went. I want to get back to the stage where I can go off and have a canter with some friends and not feel like I might die :/.
Oh also I have been doing a bit of in hand work with him when I have had some spare time. Natural Horsemanship type stuff to get him respecting me on the ground because he kept stopping while being led and not moving! He also kept coming into my space and trying to grab my shirt with his mouth or walking into me. He's 10 by the way and he is a nice tempered horse, he should know better but it's like handling him as a 5yr old again!
Sorry this is hugely long!
Here is a video of him poncing in the field looking amazing if anyone is bored and wants to see.
https://www.facebook.com/alice.macgregor1/videos/10153554108360210/