fruity
Well-Known Member
Don't know if i'm being silly feeling a little upset so hoping you guys will give me your views and advice on something.
Advertised my welsh cob for loan early summer and had a lovely lady originally from Finland ring up and was ideal,fell in love with my boy and he got on well with her,we both went to sp rides together,hacked out together (i have more than one horse) and we became really good friends,she ended up buying a few things for my chap even though i told her she didn't have to and to save her money etc.
In july she told me she liked my boy so much she was keen to full loan with a view to buy (still kept at my yard) she was very commited to him until november when she went on holiday,when she came back she wasn't the same person (her mum died when she was young and has had personal probs on and off in the past) she rode once (on that day she said in Jan 2012 she'd have to give him up as her OH needed a knee op and it was going to cost ££) and then i didn't here anything from her (tried texting/ringing as was worried about her as she often rang me in tears as her OH was mean to her,i was always there to lend a ear or take her out and cheer her up) finally got a facebook msg in mid dec saying sorry she hadn't been in touch but she had been unwell (she normally always responded to a text at least) said hope she was ok and asked when she could ride etc as needed to sort horse out and find out what she could do re riding etc. Heard nothing again til the other week on FB again,she pm'd me a rather nasty message about a photo i'd used of hers which was of my horses,i genuinely didn't know it was one she took as it was in my photo album on my comp and apoligised,she was still offish and was so taken back.
I then receive a msg today saying she wants me to leave her stuff out at the yard this weekend for her to come and collect and has listed the items (rugs,pessoa,girth,bridle) now am i being out of order not to put them out,i had to pay for his shoeing (£65) that she should of paid for and the feed also that he had etc (for 2 mths),i feel like i've been bullied and let down and the micky completely taken out of me and am now never going to get that close with a sharer again.
Advertised my welsh cob for loan early summer and had a lovely lady originally from Finland ring up and was ideal,fell in love with my boy and he got on well with her,we both went to sp rides together,hacked out together (i have more than one horse) and we became really good friends,she ended up buying a few things for my chap even though i told her she didn't have to and to save her money etc.
In july she told me she liked my boy so much she was keen to full loan with a view to buy (still kept at my yard) she was very commited to him until november when she went on holiday,when she came back she wasn't the same person (her mum died when she was young and has had personal probs on and off in the past) she rode once (on that day she said in Jan 2012 she'd have to give him up as her OH needed a knee op and it was going to cost ££) and then i didn't here anything from her (tried texting/ringing as was worried about her as she often rang me in tears as her OH was mean to her,i was always there to lend a ear or take her out and cheer her up) finally got a facebook msg in mid dec saying sorry she hadn't been in touch but she had been unwell (she normally always responded to a text at least) said hope she was ok and asked when she could ride etc as needed to sort horse out and find out what she could do re riding etc. Heard nothing again til the other week on FB again,she pm'd me a rather nasty message about a photo i'd used of hers which was of my horses,i genuinely didn't know it was one she took as it was in my photo album on my comp and apoligised,she was still offish and was so taken back.
I then receive a msg today saying she wants me to leave her stuff out at the yard this weekend for her to come and collect and has listed the items (rugs,pessoa,girth,bridle) now am i being out of order not to put them out,i had to pay for his shoeing (£65) that she should of paid for and the feed also that he had etc (for 2 mths),i feel like i've been bullied and let down and the micky completely taken out of me and am now never going to get that close with a sharer again.
don't sweat the small stuff hey x
