Fear of cantering

Christined

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Hello, I am new to the forum and I am a relatively new rider. I’ve been riding for 4 years and have owned my own horse for 2.

When I first got my horse we started doing lots of hacking, pleasure rides, endurance, she was good as gold and never put a foot wrong.

But last year she sustained a severe tendon injury which put her out of work for nearly a year. As I was planning my wedding, I wasn’t too worried about the time as I had something else to focus on.

In January this year I started bringing her back into work, being a novice I had never done this before, so naively thought I could take her where I used to just in walk and all would be well.

Of course it wasn’t, she was shying a lot more then she ever had before and actually ran away with me a couple of times.

So I took things right back to baby steps, doing very short hacking routes with someone on the ground with me, longer routes with someone on a bike and building up from there until I was confident enough to go out on my own.

We are now trotting were ever I want, at whatever speed I want, but my next hurdle is canter. This to be honest makes me very nervous. I have asked a couple of times in recent days, but I tense up and don’t give her the reins enough to go so we just get a fast, I don’t know what you want trot. Completely my fault.

Today when I came back and relayed this to my mother in law, she kindly said to me ‘well you should be catering by now’. So now I feel like a total failure!

So I am looking for some tips and advice please...

I should add that due to my horses injury we can not work in a school, she hates it anyway. Also, the saddle I currently using is a demo whilst mine is being made, so it fits her but not me at all. My knees are well over the front of the saddle, I don’t feel secure in it at all. I am a 6ft lady with extremely long legs on a show saddle, I’m sure you get the picture.

Thank you in advance for your advice.

Christine
 

Pinkvboots

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I would hack with someone who is confident and tell them how you feel, I would also book some lessons it really does help even to have someone with you while you ride, I had a nasty accident in 2017 I was cantering in the school and my horse just went down it was so quick my leg got trapped under him so my ankle had multiple fractures, it took me so long to be able to canter him in the school again but I found just being in company really helped although I always mainly rode alone before the accident I really did struggle to start with, I wouldn't worry about just take your time and do what is comfortable to start with then just set small goals even doing 2 or 3 strides to start with, don't feel pressured it's very easy for other people to say what they think you should be doing, confidence is very fragile and it takes a long time for it to come back.

If your current saddle is not right for you don't ride in it if you don't feel secure and comfortable it's not worth it wait for it to be sorted
 

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Don't even think about cantering until you get your own saddle, she won't know what you are asking for, if you can't sit comfortably. Then find a nice steep hill to canter up, so that she can't run away with you. You will feel much more confident and secure in a saddle that fits you and knowing that you will be able to stop her. Take things at your own pace and don't worry about what anybody else thinks.
 
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