Dancing_Diva
Well-Known Member
Need to get something off my chest, feeling upset. As those who have been following my posts will know I lost my boy last Monday.
He was owned by my cousin but I was a big part of his first three years of life, when he was three years old he was put out on loan by his owner, within that year he had two different loaners. He came to live with me as a four year old, me and my cousin hadn't spoken in about a year when she asked if I'd take him in as she was stuck. A rude, aggressive and horrible four year old turned up, I risked getting kicked on a daily basis with him. I turned him around, re backed him and got him going nicely until he went lame last august. Including I paid everything for him.Anyway his been mine on full loan for the previous couple of years, I wanted to buy him this year before his issues started as my cousin wanted to sell.
I dealt with all vet side of things, I was there for all his vet visits, I arranged his last day, I arranged the cremation and did everything my cousin wanted done with him, his removal I held him when he passed away, I assisted with the removal and loading of his body afterwards as it wasn't straight forward.
The point of this post? I was never asked if I wanted some of his ashes! I made sure I cut tail off for his owner the day before, I made her a lovely photo box for her birthday with his door sign in it, couple of photos and one of his shoes which I sprayed up for her. I got him in for the final time that morning, gave him his last brush the works as his owner would do none of it. What do I get left with? A little bit of tail I took for myself, and one of his shoes. She even had his head collar I gave him.
When my cousins other pony died whilst out on loan she had the ponies ashes split with the loaner seeing as she'd had him on full loan for three years. Bit of a pointless post and maybe I'm just being silly but it's been annoying me for few days now and needed to let it out. He was more my own and I did everything for him, I know I have my memerios, photos etc but would have been nice to have been thought of in regards to his ashes.
He was owned by my cousin but I was a big part of his first three years of life, when he was three years old he was put out on loan by his owner, within that year he had two different loaners. He came to live with me as a four year old, me and my cousin hadn't spoken in about a year when she asked if I'd take him in as she was stuck. A rude, aggressive and horrible four year old turned up, I risked getting kicked on a daily basis with him. I turned him around, re backed him and got him going nicely until he went lame last august. Including I paid everything for him.Anyway his been mine on full loan for the previous couple of years, I wanted to buy him this year before his issues started as my cousin wanted to sell.
I dealt with all vet side of things, I was there for all his vet visits, I arranged his last day, I arranged the cremation and did everything my cousin wanted done with him, his removal I held him when he passed away, I assisted with the removal and loading of his body afterwards as it wasn't straight forward.
The point of this post? I was never asked if I wanted some of his ashes! I made sure I cut tail off for his owner the day before, I made her a lovely photo box for her birthday with his door sign in it, couple of photos and one of his shoes which I sprayed up for her. I got him in for the final time that morning, gave him his last brush the works as his owner would do none of it. What do I get left with? A little bit of tail I took for myself, and one of his shoes. She even had his head collar I gave him.
When my cousins other pony died whilst out on loan she had the ponies ashes split with the loaner seeing as she'd had him on full loan for three years. Bit of a pointless post and maybe I'm just being silly but it's been annoying me for few days now and needed to let it out. He was more my own and I did everything for him, I know I have my memerios, photos etc but would have been nice to have been thought of in regards to his ashes.