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Our beautiful lurcher Joe is 13 and a picture of health. He has, until the last 3 weeks, had a spring in his step and a zest for life that made him seem half his age. 3 weeks or so ago I noticed a bit of awkwardness in his back end, which rapidly progressed to obvious weakness. He has been a little incontinent recently too, just the odd bibble left behind when he got up. Anyway, his tail carriage also changed to "limp", and he seemed to lose muscle quickly. A vet saw him and gave metacam in first instance in case of pain/inflamation, although both she and I were aware the issue was not going to be fixed by this.

The last few days the weakness is much worse, and he's really struggling. He saw his regular vet yesterday, who knows him well - we had a long discussion about options, and both agreed that investigations such as MRI may well reveal what the issue IS but most likely wouldn't offer a solution, given his age. A possible surgical intervention with associated long recovery, just wouldn't be fair at his age. Last ditch effort is we have stopped the Metacam (which made no difference, there's no pain response to any manipulation or poking or prodding) and started gabapentin, with a view to hitting him with steroids once the nsaids have cleared his system - just in case there's an inflammation in his spinal area causing this.

I'm veering from despair as I watch him wobbling around, struggling to keep his long legs under him, splayed out like Bambi, to hope that the steroids might miraculously work, back to despair as he knuckles on his hinds, trying to get up the step from the garden. This morning I was ready to call it - (although we have a bank holiday and no vets except the emergency vet for 2 days). But then he managed to get into the garden, have a wobbly poo, then get up on the sofa into his usual place.

I'm feeling pretty rubbish tbh. OH is away for a couple of weeks, and our daughter, who's dog he is really, (puppy as 12th birthday present, chosen at 2 days old) is very upset and also suffering. I lost my old horse a very few weeks ago which is still a bit raw (OH away then too!). It's just all a bit sh1t ATM. So this is just a bit of a "get it off my chest, trouble shared" post. If things stay as they are now, we can last until we can try him on the steroids, and if they don't work we'll have to call time, it's just not fair on him to continue, I don't think. If he gets any worse than he is, I think the decision is taken out of our handsJoey.jpeg
 

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Did the vet listen to his heart? This all sounds very similar to how my old setter's last few weeks went, and it was actually congestive heart failure that was causing the wobbliness. I only cottoned on when he started coughing as well.
 

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I’m so sorry, what a shit time you are having.
Lurchers are so hard on their bodies. What a beautiful dog he is.
I wonder, seeing he is on a slippy floor in the pic, could you put towels, blankets, anything down just while you see how he goes on the new meds? I hope they help.
 

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Did the vet listen to his heart? This all sounds very similar to how my old setter's last few weeks went, and it was actually congestive heart failure that was causing the wobbliness. I only cottoned on when he started coughing as well.
Yes, heart clear and strong, full bloods after first vet visit also clear. Eats well, eyes bright, nose cool and wet, coat shiny and soft.. As I said, he's a picture of health, which is one of the reason's it's so damned hard to be dealing with a mechanical failure. We think he has something impinging on his spinal cord and affecting the nerves in his back end. He had some issues years ago with a slight weakness and almost "tying up" in his back end and DID have an MRI and a spinal tap, but they found nothing at all. It seemed to resolve over time...I wonder if something has been grumbling away all these years.:(
 

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Yes, heart clear and strong, full bloods after first vet visit also clear. Eats well, eyes bright, nose cool and wet, coat shiny and soft.. As I said, he's a picture of health, which is one of the reason's it's so damned hard to be dealing with a mechanical failure. We think he has something impinging on his spinal cord and affecting the nerves in his back end. He had some issues years ago with a slight weakness and almost "tying up" in his back end and DID have an MRI and a spinal tap, but they found nothing at all. It seemed to resolve over time...I wonder if something has been grumbling away all these years.:(
Oh, the poor love. You just want the vet to give them a magic pill that will make everything better, don't you
 

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I’m so sorry, what a shit time you are having.
Lurchers are so hard on their bodies. What a beautiful dog he is.
I wonder, seeing he is on a slippy floor in the pic, could you put towels, blankets, anything down just while you see how he goes on the new meds? I hope they help.
That's upstairs - he is blocked from even trying to get up now, I dug out an ancient stairgate. I have already made multiple non slip walkeways over our hard floors downstairs, we had some old rubber matting rolls left by previous owner of the house.
 

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So sorry he's ailing, and so close to the loss of your horse. Will keep everything crossed that the steroids make a difference.

What a gorgeous dog he is x
 

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so sorry , it’s such a shock when things go wrong when they are older and to do any major intervention is not the right way to go. I lost my last lurcher at 13 (2 weeks after my horse) and was surprised when the vet said she had reached a good age, I really thought I had at least another year and hadn’t thought of her as elderly. Hopefully your boy will respond to the steroids and you will have him a bit longer. Beautiful dog BTW
 

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Did the vet tell you to be aware that Gabapentin during the first few weeks can sort of make them a bit groggy, and tired, before their bodies gets used to the medication?

Sorry you're going through this. It's difficult when they go from seemingly perfect health one day, and out of the blue you get hit in the gut with that something still isn't working as it should somewhere inside them. If only they could talk.

Hope the medication helps your beautiful boy. {{{{Hugs}}}}
 

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Did the vet tell you to be aware that Gabapentin during the first few weeks can sort of make them a bit groggy, and tired, before their bodies gets used to the medication?

Sorry you're going through this. It's difficult when they go from seemingly perfect health one day, and out of the blue you get hit in the gut with that something still isn't working as it should somewhere inside them. If only they could talk.

Hope the medication helps your beautiful boy. {{{{Hugs}}}}
Thank you x
The gaba is a low dose for this reason. I'm a vet receptionist so pretty familiar with the various treatments and options.
 

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Our beautiful lurcher Joe is 13 and a picture of health. He has, until the last 3 weeks, had a spring in his step and a zest for life that made him seem half his age. 3 weeks or so ago I noticed a bit of awkwardness in his back end, which rapidly progressed to obvious weakness. He has been a little incontinent recently too, just the odd bibble left behind when he got up. Anyway, his tail carriage also changed to "limp", and he seemed to lose muscle quickly. A vet saw him and gave metacam in first instance in case of pain/inflamation, although both she and I were aware the issue was not going to be fixed by this.

The last few days the weakness is much worse, and he's really struggling. He saw his regular vet yesterday, who knows him well - we had a long discussion about options, and both agreed that investigations such as MRI may well reveal what the issue IS but most likely wouldn't offer a solution, given his age. A possible surgical intervention with associated long recovery, just wouldn't be fair at his age. Last ditch effort is we have stopped the Metacam (which made no difference, there's no pain response to any manipulation or poking or prodding) and started gabapentin, with a view to hitting him with steroids once the nsaids have cleared his system - just in case there's an inflammation in his spinal area causing this.

I'm veering from despair as I watch him wobbling around, struggling to keep his long legs under him, splayed out like Bambi, to hope that the steroids might miraculously work, back to despair as he knuckles on his hinds, trying to get up the step from the garden. This morning I was ready to call it - (although we have a bank holiday and no vets except the emergency vet for 2 days). But then he managed to get into the garden, have a wobbly poo, then get up on the sofa into his usual place.

I'm feeling pretty rubbish tbh. OH is away for a couple of weeks, and our daughter, who's dog he is really, (puppy as 12th birthday present, chosen at 2 days old) is very upset and also suffering. I lost my old horse a very few weeks ago which is still a bit raw (OH away then too!). It's just all a bit sh1t ATM. So this is just a bit of a "get it off my chest, trouble shared" post. If things stay as they are now, we can last until we can try him on the steroids, and if they don't work we'll have to call time, it's just not fair on him to continue, I don't think. If he gets any worse than he is, I think the decision is taken out of our handsView attachment 121473
Didn't want to read and run. I think you are being very realistic and fair. Thinking of you. ❤
 

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So sorry you are going through this . He really is a beautiful boy .
You and your family clearly adore him and you will know when the time is right . Big hugs to you all xx
 

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What a beautiful boy. I’m so sorry he’s giving you such cause for worry just now. I really hope the steroids improve the condition and you get much more time together. X
 
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