MissJessica
Well-Known Member
Pease don't respond to my post by gushing...it was love at first sight, or I knew as soon as I sat on him because to me this isn't helpful.
I am a cynic. I struggle to trust, I don't really believe in the certainty above, I am about to take the leap from loaning horses in the past to being a horse owner.
I am competent, capable but not confident. However, I know I don't want another cob as I've always had cobs and I really want something to keep forever, with that bit more ability for when I'm ready. (And feeling brave).
Today I tried a connemara, 8yrs 15.1hh he unbalanced me a little when he went into trot & I tensed/fretted/worried/stressed/thought the worst pulled my hands back & lent forward (I know I shouldn't of) & he reacted but rushing off but stopped after a few strides. Probably when I released by breath (good boy). This happened again when a loud bang unexpectedly happened. I know it was me being cautious/nervous & I know once we got to know each other I wouldn't be bothers but its such a big step up. From a laid back older cob to a connemara but we all have to make that leap.
I want to know, are we ever sure. Is anyone else out there scared of the thought of being home alone & getting on for the first time in your own ménage?
How do we all feel, the horse had a fab temperament & if I don't want another cob I need to understand the next step up has more life. Is it ever easy to make the step up?
Thank you
I am a cynic. I struggle to trust, I don't really believe in the certainty above, I am about to take the leap from loaning horses in the past to being a horse owner.
I am competent, capable but not confident. However, I know I don't want another cob as I've always had cobs and I really want something to keep forever, with that bit more ability for when I'm ready. (And feeling brave).
Today I tried a connemara, 8yrs 15.1hh he unbalanced me a little when he went into trot & I tensed/fretted/worried/stressed/thought the worst pulled my hands back & lent forward (I know I shouldn't of) & he reacted but rushing off but stopped after a few strides. Probably when I released by breath (good boy). This happened again when a loud bang unexpectedly happened. I know it was me being cautious/nervous & I know once we got to know each other I wouldn't be bothers but its such a big step up. From a laid back older cob to a connemara but we all have to make that leap.
I want to know, are we ever sure. Is anyone else out there scared of the thought of being home alone & getting on for the first time in your own ménage?
How do we all feel, the horse had a fab temperament & if I don't want another cob I need to understand the next step up has more life. Is it ever easy to make the step up?
Thank you