funny old time

[babymare]

hi there been an awful terrible funny happy sad mixed up 4 weeks - mother rushed to hospital 4 weeks ago after been found on floor after being there for what we think is at least 12 hours and fractured pelvis and memory just gone , me and my gorgeous fella found a house and decided its time to settle down - so much a mixture of tears an happiness and my head spinning - mother now in re hab but no idea what future holds and so so so many tears there because I just want the mum i know back . me and fella moving in house 27th dec Eeeekkkk but boy so so so happy. but sadness as I have to make a decision over my beautiful beautiful girl - given her sight and her stress problems from the past i will be meeting my vet who i trust but in my heart i know just know but i always believe to early than to late - heart pounds happy one minute in tears the next head whirring not sleeping - can ifast forward 2 months please missing out christmas x

 

[Shavings]

oh that has been a busy/stressfull 4 weeks for you!!
first let me say congratulations for moving in with your man
and to every thing else just stay strong, your mum will be fine just needs time and she knows she has a loving daughter in your self
and as for your girl, some times its for the best, i know its not quiet the same but we had a cat who was older then me (he died 7 year ago and he was 21 i was only 13 going 14) mum was beside her self but the thing that lets her know she did the right thing in PTS is that she cant keep alive for her self, he would have been in pain and possible spilled down hill very quickly, this way she knew he didn't stuffer and although you cant do it with all animals he now rests in are garden , were he shall rest forever more, never said its easy i know its not, but just remember when you see the sun shine creeping through the clouds its them watching down on us saying, its ok to shed a tear but im ok up here dont worry you will see us again

**big hugs**

here if you need some one to talk to don't hesitate to PM me

 

[blood_magik]

I hope your mum gets better soon Hopefully the memory loss is due to a head injury and it will come back with time.

I know how you feel - my dad's had heart surgery and got diagnosed with cancer a week later

Everything happens in threes so I think you're set for a wee while

*hugs*

 

[babymare]

thank you guys for your words - and really helped - mums mempoy was bad before but this as tipped her over but yes i love her to bits and we always been close so hey she will continue to be loved and hugged my babymare well 3 years ago i know we would be on borrowed time when my vet said no blood going to lense so i have prepared self for that day but mmmmm shes only 13 and imagined more years with her lol bless she is a pet as cant ride her and please riding is not what its about for me just being with her but to move her to strange yard strange herd strange everything and she is a stress head due to abuse she had before i bought her - do i chance it and risk her last days being manic frightened stressed and all what may come or lead her in from the field she knows the herd she as been part of for 5 years in the place she as finally found happiness and say sweet dreams my beautiful girl - please be nice as im struggling with alot at mo but your thoughts be good
x

 

[Shavings]

dont worry i know how scary it is
i would leave her with the herd she has been with for so long were she is happy and at peace
i wouldnt want to upset her incase it is her last days

my friend had a horse put down last year and she brought him in gave him a full groom, plaited his mane (he was a fell pony) and made him feel special, then they went on a little walk he had some polos and slowly lay down for a little nap
and with that he pasted over to the biggest grass filled field he will have ever seen

some people take shoes or a plait of hair from the horse as memory

i know this must be so hard and scary but if it doesnt happen remember your doing it for her and that she knows you love her deary, you gave that little horse a better life then she would have ever had

Thinking of you here, if you need a friend just give us a shout, dont have to be alone at just a hard time x