grrrr rant continued! *loong one*

[482739]

A few weeks ago i made a post about this girl who doesnt care about her horse and thinks that evereyone else should do the work on her own horse, as it is at a riding school but she only wants to benifets from the work i do.

Anyway now she is gettin a other horse a 5 year old eventer which is costin alot of money and is annoying me as she is keeping her old horse and even though she only rides it once aweek. It is really annoying me as she is getting a other horse when she cant b botherd by the one she has now

 

[TheBlackMoth]

Although it's annoying, I think you have to let people do what they want and can afford to do. As long as her horses are not neglected I think you have to just chalk this one up.

 

[482739]

yeah i no im making a huge deal but its how she says it which is annoyin me.

 

[Tia]

How do you know she can't be bothered with her horse?

 

[482739]

because she told me

 

[Tia]

Is the horse bothered by the fact that she can't be bothered?

 

[Agent XXX999]

Maybe she has outgrown the horses ability. Sorry to sound condecending but I am assuming that you are quite young and it does happen as you get older - your horse needs to be upgraded to something slightly sharper - its how you learn.

I am not sure if you have your own horse but if not why not go and see if you can ride her other horse for her? That way you and the horse benefit and I am sure that you will love him like you think he needs to be loved!

 

[482739]

yeah im 16 but i didnt want to be mean and say she is not a good rider but the horse is more than her ability but i do understand where everone is coming from so thanks for yor comments

 

[AmyMay]

Some people want different experiences from horse owning. Some are happy to just ride - paying for others to do everything else - most of us want to be very hands on.

As long as all her horses are well looked after then that's all anyone really needs to be converned over.