Sunjunkieme
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I feel your pain OP. My now retired mare came to me here in Ireland as a 10 year old and had done nothing but hunt from the day she was broken to ride.
She was very nervous out alone, and no wonder as she had only been out along with 25 plus horses at a time in her previous homes, almost certainly never alone. My main problem was just getting her to move forward any further than out the yard gates. As suggested by Milo above that tactic would work on almost all horses that are just being a bit of a tit. But my mare for sure was genuinely highly anxious and reactive without the reassuring presence of other horses.
At her most dangerous point she would think nothing of slamming the brakes on and reversing backwards at speed even if a huge tractor was sat right behind her with its engine running, or straight down into a ditch, definitely not for the faint hearted.
With her it eventually dawned on me all my fierce get on and get going to her was only increasing her anxiety and panic levels. I started to try making her sit it out - anything she didn't like (most things actually!) I would just sit with a loose contact - the moment she went to spin for home I would increase her spinning around and around and then allow her to stand and think about it again....and again. So she was basically allowed to stand and look at whatever monster had taken her eye for as long as she wanted (hours on the first couple of attempts!) really encouraged and praised for the slightest movement forwards, but never ever allowed to go in reverse or spin around and away from the object.
I am happy to say that with a grim determination from me and an increasing trust from her, she eventually became my perfect solo hacking horse. On the odd occasion she would plant and the moment she realised I was doing the same old thing just sitting and letting her get over herself she would give a big sigh and move on - albeit sometimes at an impressive dancing banana shape passing the monsters lol!
Only you know if you want persevere with your horse to reach that sweet point, but for me she was eventually one of the most reliable hacking horses I have ever owned. She is retired now after suffering from Lymes disease 3 years ago., but other than that a much loved pasture ornament. Good luck with solving the issue.
Thank you. You’re right, he’s genuinely anxious and I’ve found legs hands and verbal encouragement makes things much, much worse. My winter has been spent on ground work, he actually looks for scary things to touch, looking to get ‘paid’ ? planting, spinning - not the issue, but noises he can’t place, clearly frighten him and he loses his mind.. very frustrating, but I’m determined to help him get over it. ??