madeleine1
Well-Known Member
sorry about this sorry but im really struggling.
i have just brought a new horse ive had her about 2 months and i she been home for 5 weeks. we hacked out cross of the road in the first week and it was a desaster so i left it a couple of weeks and just hacked her down the lane next the house so we didnt cross the road.
today i tried to hack across the road again without success. i asked my brother to walk out with me (he can ride really well and im no novice). when riding across the road we have to walk down the drive then along the layby with is beside the dual carriage way then we cross the carriage way waiting in the middle at this point she is alert but not to stressed or fussy. then we walked a round a small patch of trees only about 50m from the road. we the turned back to face home and the horse froze. i asked my brother to help by leading the horse and i tried to move her forward. she then took two steps back and throw herself into the air with all 4 feet of the ground. i stayed on and and while she was trying to bolt forwards my brother kept her still. he then walked her forward (im still on). we walked back to the road and she was still trying to pull my brother home at speed. i was talking to her the whole time trying to relax her. we get to the middle of the road ok. then she waiting a minute. head butted my brother and lifted herself of the ground again and bolted with bro still attached. thankfull no cars at the second. got to the otherside and got her back to walk. walked her home and rode for a minute in the field. then my brother got on (braver then me). and took her out for a hack down the lane(no crossing the carriage way). and then brought her home. brother is planning on hacking her across the carriage way tomorrow night when there is no traffic.
any ideas on how the solve this problem i dont just want to give up. please ask if there is anything i didnt make sence on.
i have just brought a new horse ive had her about 2 months and i she been home for 5 weeks. we hacked out cross of the road in the first week and it was a desaster so i left it a couple of weeks and just hacked her down the lane next the house so we didnt cross the road.
today i tried to hack across the road again without success. i asked my brother to walk out with me (he can ride really well and im no novice). when riding across the road we have to walk down the drive then along the layby with is beside the dual carriage way then we cross the carriage way waiting in the middle at this point she is alert but not to stressed or fussy. then we walked a round a small patch of trees only about 50m from the road. we the turned back to face home and the horse froze. i asked my brother to help by leading the horse and i tried to move her forward. she then took two steps back and throw herself into the air with all 4 feet of the ground. i stayed on and and while she was trying to bolt forwards my brother kept her still. he then walked her forward (im still on). we walked back to the road and she was still trying to pull my brother home at speed. i was talking to her the whole time trying to relax her. we get to the middle of the road ok. then she waiting a minute. head butted my brother and lifted herself of the ground again and bolted with bro still attached. thankfull no cars at the second. got to the otherside and got her back to walk. walked her home and rode for a minute in the field. then my brother got on (braver then me). and took her out for a hack down the lane(no crossing the carriage way). and then brought her home. brother is planning on hacking her across the carriage way tomorrow night when there is no traffic.
any ideas on how the solve this problem i dont just want to give up. please ask if there is anything i didnt make sence on.