Have I done the wrong thing?

[R2R]

I have a horse for loan/share at the yard. A girl came to see him who wanted him. For one reason or another I wasnt so keen, so I told her I had other people to see and would let her know but thanked her for coming.

She is now really stroppy!!!

Surely if I am looking for a sharer I should have a say on who shares the blinking pony? I was really pollite too!

 

[miss_c]

If she's going to be stroppy now, then she'd only get worse once her foot was in the door! It's your horse, you have final say. She can bog off!

 

[BobbyMondeo]

I would just forget about it and move on. Its your pony, you decide who rides it. Your guy feeling is usualy right. I had the same problem but now have found someone lovely

 

[hamish1]

nope, if shes stroppy over that, then whats she gona be like if you say she cant do something on your horse or theres something you want done in a certain way. He's your horse you can choose who shares it

 

[marmalade76]

If she's going to be stroppy now, then she'd only get worse once her foot was in the door! It's your horse, you have final say. She can bog off!

Dotto that!

 

[Divasmum]

Just think what a nightmare she would have been if you had shared!

 

[R2R]

OK phew!! I just went with my gut

 

[Faro]

You know, gut feelings are pretty accurate most of the time. I do think you've done the right thing.