Having a wobble.

lucymb

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Is it normal to have a wobble after putting a deposit down on a horse.

I lost my beautiful mare a few months ago and have decided it was time to look for a new pony.

Since lockdown restrictions have been lifted i have been to view quite a few Ponies. Obviously sticking to the social distancing rules.
None were right until Saturday when i went to view a mare who is absolutely perfect for me and my family.
I left knowing that she was the one for us and put a deposit down on her the next day.

I obviously need to get her vet checked and go back to view again but i didn't want her to be sold in the mean time.
Now I'm wondering if have done the right thing even though i know she is exactly what we are looking for.
Is it normal to feel like this. I haven't bought a pony for over 10 years.
 

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YES

anything with any financial implications makes most people feel a bit wobbly....

Horses are sentient creatures so it’s normal to worry are they what they say on the tin.

Anyone with an ounce of ability to think critically will be a bit wobbly about a new partnership especially if you haven’t had a horse for so long.

All normal, aids with making good judgements I think.

good luck, enjoy and I hope everything goes well for you! X
 

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wow. hope the vetting goes well and you have many, many happy years together. it will be fine. enjoy

Thank you?
I have done everything that is advised when buying a horse so i hoping that she will be as they have described.
From what i have seen she is but who knows. There are so many miss sold stories. I just hope im not going to be one of them.
 

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Course it is, looking forward to the pictures :) I'm sure she will be fab but yes of course it's perfectly normal, its a big step but she sounds like she will be a great asset and you will have years of fun together
 

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Yes! I was so stressed the night before I got my first horse I spent most of it crying! :oops:
 

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Yes! I was so stressed the night before I got my first horse I spent most of it crying! :oops:

Very different but I did exactly the same the night before (and week after) I got my puppy. Best decision we made in hindsight however!
 
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Don’t forget to allow time to “settle in” as they can sometimes not be who you thought they were if they aren’t used to moving around x
 
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