Pink Gorilla
Well-Known Member
Does anyone else feel pressure through social media, or local peers to have a fancy sports horse? I feel so inaquate and self conscious with my young cob. I absolutely adore him though. But because I’ve ridden horses 30 odd years, I feel as though I should have a flash big warmblood. I did buy a warmblood, last year, after I lost my speedy/nutty Section D of 21yrs. The warmblood and I (although he was stunning and moved amazingly) just didn’t click. He was stroppy, dominant, opinionated, backwards thinking and needed a lot of professional help to reach his full potential and the ease and fun of just popping in a trailer to meet friends for a mad hack when we want a break from dressage schooling just seemed so much harder work and likely to be traumatic ? But now I can’t help but feel I’m trying to turn my Irish Cob x Connie (who I absolutely clicked with) into a fancy pants sports horse because I’m embarrassed to be riding such a novice horse at my dressage lessons. I clip him and buy him tack to look smart (within budget), but can always feel myself silently wishing he was taller, or leaner etc. Does anyone else feel the pressure to look ‘professional’ through social media and the abundance of well bred sports horses these days? What happened to the hairy Heinz 57 of the 90’s being the norm?