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hi i hope people could try to give me any advice
my parents own a yard and always takes there side
all of the liverys get on and we all have a right lough apart from one person some stuck up person we have all tried to help this person in the past we have a very talented child on the yard were the parents have not alot of money but very knowlegeble and they make all there ponys from scrach last year i brought a pony that was very good in the past but had been ruiend so i have warked extremly hard on it and within a year iv got it so that the talented child can ride it meanwile stuck up person and her delightful child goes and bys a pony for alot of money and has got even more warse she is very nasty to talented child bear in mind delightful child is 14 yr 10 and talented child is 11 and year 7 she has done things like hide her hat in the lorry and wach her run round looking for it and have her arnti and mum shout at her because she couldnt find it and say things like my ponys warth more then all your ponys pot together im going to beat you every time you go in (she hasnt yet )takes the piss out of talented childs riding jacket tc was only £35 and dc was £200 we thought she was only nasty to tc but the other day i was on the yard and heard all this shouting dc was shounting and screaming at another livery who is also 11 yr 7 she was threating to hit her and her pony and said realy nasty things to her this in my mind is clearly bullying and what was werse is that her mum was there and diddnt say a word and try to condone it to me afterward and whats warse is that her mum is a school teacher meanwile tc is tacking my pony out bear in mind tc is only 11 and my pony is 148 and iv still got another yr schooling in it so only geting rounds back in her and to get a partnership sup and dc is always looking down her nose and sniggering when things go slightly wrong when we are at shows she completly blanks us you wouldnt thinks that they even knew us wich i think is very rode at shows she once told the owner of the showcenter to f off and her mum didnt say a word and when thing go wrong she always blames the ponys and walks out of the ring and leaves them in the ring and in the middle of winter she will leave them on the side of the lorry with know rug on and to cope it all another livery was at a show we had already left for home sup and dc was still there with another livery al ponys stifle poped out and all the afillated pony lot was all trying to help sup and dc drove sraght out past them and diddnt say a word and when she got back she didnt tell us anything so we could help them in any way
anyway to this evening i was schooling my pony i love her more then anythink in the world and thing wasnt going wright at all sup and dc had finished there ponys was sitting and waching and looking down her nose at her and loughthing and was realy tacking the piss out of her i was realy angry and upset i cant say anythink to them i know i was realy wrong i told my pony of and realy last my temper with my ponyi didnt hert ,my pony as never cary a stick i just shouted at her and smacked with hand i have gave her lots of kisses and coudles and made up with her i realy love my pony and realy upset about it anyway she said to another livery that she is going to reaport me to my dad for crulty thats a lough when she never feed her ponys and the only reason they are ok know is that we have realy desent grass but come feb they always look othel and we all tried to help her last year and she nether lisened and every sride in the ring she is hitting her pony down the neak with the stick my pet hat anyway im going to be in a lot of truble tomos as always take there word and never lissans to my side
 
I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude but I just can't read this post.

You don't have any punctuation.
I'm really not being arsey but if you don't make it easier to read, I'm not sure many people will be prepared to plough through it.

Watch this space, you'll probably get umpteen replies now!
 
The best advice I can think to give you, is to tell your mum and dad what you have posted on here. Telll them that you know you shouldn't have lost your temper with the pony and that you are sorry. I would also ask them to be on the yard more when the unpleasant family are there, if they continue then your parents will see it, and there is always the possibility that their behaviour will improve if your parents are around.
 
I see the financial crisis has made even punctuation unaffordable.
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Sorry, completely unable to concentrate hard enough to understand the post
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Dont mean to be unkind, but full stops and paragraphs would make it so much easier to understand.

You obviously took a long time to post this, but I cant think that many people will have the patience to read it
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I tried to read it. I *think* you are going to get in trouble with your dad for hitting your pony with your hand??

If that is the case, I would tell your Dad yourself and explain what was going on..........I would also suggest keeping out of the way of the other liveries way!
 
You could always try saying to your Dad that you did something stupid and tell him what is was and finish by saying you know it was the wrong thing to do. Assure him it won't happen again and hope for the best.

*fingers crossed* that he accepts your explanation and it blows over

Don't recommend telling him the whole story though or it will come across as you blaming her for your actions
 
im sorry im serverly dislesic and can bearly spell and never got the hang of puncturation but dusnt mean im not cleaver in other ways
 
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im sorry im serverly dislesic and can bearly spell and never got the hang of puncturation but dusnt mean im not cleaver in other ways

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Please don't think I was insulting your intelligence, I wasn't.
Can you not run it through spell check? Does it add punctuation also?
TBH, it matters little to me if people are clever or not, there is a place in this world for everybody.
 
mbp, I think you're very brave to post considering that you don't find it easy.

It would make your posts easier to read if, every few lines when you feel that there is a natural pause, you put in a blank line.

That would really help to break up what you're saying into chunks that are easier to digest.

Don't stop posting! Just try to put in the odd blank line every 5 lines, or where they naturally fit.

I hope your dad will understand - you sound very caring towards your pony. I'm sure you didn't hurt her.
 
I dont think you have any need to say sorry mpb.
I personally think the other people getting at you should say sorry for putting you down.
Dyslexia is a disability.Do you put people down that have a limb missing?So what gives you a right to put people down like the poster.She only asked for help,and then gets put down.
I know how tough it is for people like you as my OH and son both have silmilar problems to you,and by no means are they thick.
Mpb i would personally try and talk to your parents.Explain what you have down wrong,and tell them that you know you have done wrong,and that you feel bad about it.Good luck.
 
Don't worry my spelling is awful and I don't even have a reason for it! I have heard that firefox (an internet browser) automatically spell check for you, might be helpful? I love paragraphs, just chuck em in whenever you feel the need, like every 3 or 4 lines
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Being dyslexic is fair enough but you can hit the spell check button and as for punctuation just try reading it back aloud. I know its hard, we're all dyslexic in my family but you have to make the effort to find ways round it I'm afraid.

As for the problem, definitely tell your father first. It won't make it any worse and may well help but keep it to just what you did wrong rather than make excuses. I agree that sup and dc sound awful but you don't want to be seen shifting the blame.
 
Oh, I only read half and thought it was about a bully child with too much money bullying a talented child who was riding your pony.....if this is the case, you either need to tell your parents, bullying is not right in any situation. and maybe coach the talented child into not letting the idiots get to him/her!
 
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im sorry im serverly dislesic and can bearly spell and never got the hang of puncturation but dusnt mean im not cleaver in other ways

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don`t worry, i found a <font color="blue"> , </font> in there and read it all.

it`s very difficult to ignore such people when you are young but i think that is the best thing to do.
 
It is also worth remembering that when people with Dyslexia are stressed or under pressure, their ability to process the written word gets worse. I would think that this poster was pretty distressed when she was asking for our advice. It is a shame when people feel the need to parade their own ability to spell and punctuate, at the expense of someone who is clearly already upset. (well that's my opinion and I am old enough and bolshy enough to take the flack
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Aww bless I am sorry to read that! Sounds like you are stuck with a brat of a child on your yard!

Please don't beat yourself up (pardon the pun) about smacking your pony. She'll be fine; you won't do it again and we have all made mistakes. Don't worry I'm sure your parents will understand if you tell them what happened.

Maybe even show them what you typed to us in your post?? If you were my little girl I'd want to know how upset this has made you
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You must tell your parents that this horrible child is bullying children younger than her.
Sounds like she is being mean to you too?


Don't worry - enjoy your pony - sounds like you are working very hard on her and doing well
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now, you can't tell a person is dyslexic from reading a post on the internet!


I think you have 2 options - throw the person off the yard (the bully) as they are demeaning other clients and the talented child has just as much right to be there as the bully
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and that behaviour is downright unacceptable in society.

the other option is that you tell the child (bully) 3 strikes and they are out - and make her aware of what she is doing. sometimes they arn't aware that they are bullying
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I have been on the recieving end of an "innocent" bully and its not nice
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and make sure that the mum knows the deal too.

tell your parents that you didnt mean to hit your pony, but the behaviour and actions of the bully made you so angry that it was lucky that you didn't hit her
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make sure your parents know that she is a bully - and keep a diary of her actions etc. so you have proof!

hope you get the situation sorted out
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I am not envious of your position
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and please keep posting
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im sorry im serverly dislesic and can bearly spell and never got the hang of puncturation but dusnt mean im not cleaver in other ways

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Can you 'quote' your post, and put in spaces where you start talking about something new?
Or could someone do a summary on your behalf?
I really can't read it.
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im sorry im serverly dislesic and can bearly spell and never got the hang of puncturation but dusnt mean im not cleaver in other ways

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Can you 'quote' your post, and put in spaces where you start talking about something new?
Or could someone do a summary on your behalf?
I really can't read it.
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should have gone to specsavers then
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in that case here.

Hi I hope people could try to give me some advice.
My parents own a yard and always takes there side.
All of the liverys get on and we all have a right laugh apart from one person. She is some stuck up person we have all tried to help this person in the past.

We have a very talented child on the yard where the parents have not got alot of money but are very knowlegeble. They make all there ponys from scratch. Last year i brought a pony that was very good in the past but had been ruined. I have worked extremly hard on it, and within a year I've got it so that the talented child can ride it.

Meanwile the stuck up person and her delightful child goes and buys a pony for alot of money. She has got even more worse, she is very nasty to the talented child bearing in mind the delightful child is 14yo in yr 10 at school and the talented child is 11yo and in year 7 at school. She has done things like hide her hat in the lorry and wach her run round looking for it. Her aunty and mum shouted at her because she couldnt find it.

She also say's things like my ponys worth more then all your ponys put together and i'm going to beat you every time you go in the ring (she hasnt yet ),takes the piss out of talented childs riding jacket. tc's was only £35 and dc's was £200.

We thought she was only nasty to tc but the other day I was on the yard and heard all this shouting. dc was shounting and screaming at another livery who is also 11yo in yr 7 at school. She was threating to hit her and her pony and said realy nasty things to her, this in my mind is clearly bullying. What was worse is that her mum was there and did not say a word and tried to condone it to me afterwards. Whats worse is that her mum is a school teacher meanwhile tc is tacking my pony out. bear in mind tc is only 11 and my pony is 148. I've still got another yr schooling in it so only geting rounds back in her and to get a partnership sup. dc is always looking down her nose and sniggering when things go slightly wrong when we are at shows she completly blanks us. You wouldnt think that they even knew us wich i think is very rude. At shows she once told the owner of the showcenter to f off and her mum didnt say a word. When thing go wrong she always blames the ponys and walks out of the ring and leaves them in the ring. In the middle of winter she will leave them on the side of the lorry with no rug on. To cap it all another livery was at a show, we had already left for home, sup and dc were still there with another livery all ponys stifle poped out and all the afillated pony lot was all trying to help sup and dc drove sraght out past them and diddnt say a word and when she got back she didnt tell us anything so we could help them in any way.

Anyway to this evening i was schooling my pony, i love her more then anything in the world and things wernt going right at all. sup and dc had finished and there ponys was sitting and waching and looking down her nose at her and laughing, they were realy tacking the piss out of her. I was realy angry and upset i cant say anything to them. I know i was realy wrong, i told my pony off and realy lost my temper with my pony. I didnt hurt my pony as i never carry a stick, i just shouted at her and smacked with my hand I have gave her lots of kisses and cuddles and made up with her. i really love my pony and i'm really upset about it. Anyway she said to another livery that she is going to report me to my dad for cruelty. Thats a low thing to do when she never feeds her ponys, and the only reason they are ok now is that we have realy desent grass. Come feb they always look othel and we all tried to help her last year and she nether listened. Every ride in the ring she is hitting her pony down the neak with the stick, my pet hate, anyway im going to be in a lot of trouble tomos as always take there word and never listens to my side.

That should make things easier to read.

As for whats happened. If it was me i'd ignore them as much as possible.

alwasy best to tell your folks before SUP or DC getsin there first and then they will have nothing to you to.
 
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It is also worth remembering that when people with Dyslexia are stressed or under pressure, their ability to process the written word gets worse. I would think that this poster was pretty distressed when she was asking for our advice. It is a shame when people feel the need to parade their own ability to spell and punctuate, at the expense of someone who is clearly already upset. (well that's my opinion and I am old enough and bolshy enough to take the flack
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Hi mpb, I think you need to speak to your parents. I think everyone at some point has lost their temper with their horse/pony due to other fustrations in life! Just explain you were very upset and now feel very sorry.

Last time I lost my temper with my horse I gave her a smack and the cried down the phone to my boyfriend! Lots of carrots soon made it up though
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As to the grammer, mpb is clearly upset and probably rushed the post.

Spelling isn't everything
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