hhorse0113
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Hi Guys, I’m in such a pickle with how to approach getting my lovely pony back! I’ll give you some background.
About 6 years ago I was at a yard in which I part loaned out my pony to a young girl. She loved him as he was super cob after all. Anyway long story short the girls mother wanted to buy him from me for her daughters birthday. I declined. Which as the loaner was through the YO, the YO said I was breaking this girls heart and demanded to sell him. I refused which resulting in me being told to leave! At this time I was at work and a colleague of mine kept her horse about 30/40 mins away and said that they would take him to the yard she is at (as it is a close friend of hers). Which was great they took him on as a full/ permanent loan and used for RDA there was no written agreement as it was all so rushed given the circumstances!! Anyway I would pop over to see him every so often but obviously with the whole ordeal it really shook me! And I felt a tremendous amount of guilt as I’ve had my boy since he was 3!! Anyway I found myself last year finally plucking up the courage to start riding again and bought my 5 year old ex racer. She’s lovely and somewhat of a rescue case and it’s horrible to say that I’ve felt like all this time I’m missing something. And it’s him my super cob. I’m planning on going up soon to see him but I’m wanting to have him back. I’m terrible with this kind of thing and any help on what to say and how to word it to them would be very much appreciated!!
About 6 years ago I was at a yard in which I part loaned out my pony to a young girl. She loved him as he was super cob after all. Anyway long story short the girls mother wanted to buy him from me for her daughters birthday. I declined. Which as the loaner was through the YO, the YO said I was breaking this girls heart and demanded to sell him. I refused which resulting in me being told to leave! At this time I was at work and a colleague of mine kept her horse about 30/40 mins away and said that they would take him to the yard she is at (as it is a close friend of hers). Which was great they took him on as a full/ permanent loan and used for RDA there was no written agreement as it was all so rushed given the circumstances!! Anyway I would pop over to see him every so often but obviously with the whole ordeal it really shook me! And I felt a tremendous amount of guilt as I’ve had my boy since he was 3!! Anyway I found myself last year finally plucking up the courage to start riding again and bought my 5 year old ex racer. She’s lovely and somewhat of a rescue case and it’s horrible to say that I’ve felt like all this time I’m missing something. And it’s him my super cob. I’m planning on going up soon to see him but I’m wanting to have him back. I’m terrible with this kind of thing and any help on what to say and how to word it to them would be very much appreciated!!