tinker88
Well-Known Member
Hi,
my 16yr old step daughter sold her pony 5 weeks ago, (she was a fab 1st/2nd pony) she had had her for just over a year and did a bit of everything, SJ, XC, PC, etc, and due to her going to back to live at her mums for a few months after xmas we put her out on loan - we went to see her whilst out on loan and she didnt look in as good condition as we sent her in - she wasnt bad - but just not the same, they had hunted her, but not clipped her, and she looked a bit "tired" even thou she was only 8yrs old. When she returned home to us we clipped her and she had TERRIBLE mites all over her, it took a good 2 months to get her skin back to normal.
Anyway my step daughter decided with her GSCE's coming up, and the fact she wants to go to racing college and that she had outgrown her 13.2hh pony to sell her.
We found a great home for her, they tried her, 5* vetted her by the BEST vets as poss (even though she wasnt expensive), etc and she went to her new home 5 weeks ago. We sent everything the pony owned, and it was a distressing sale.
Weve had a few emails about how well shes settled in and we were over the moon we found a great home for our loved pony. They were having lessons on her, rode her down the busiest roads in heavy traffic etc. and we generally pleased with her.
My step daughter has since spent her money from the pony on a scooter, and lessons, and getting her license along with new things for college - (racing wear etc)
and on friday i had a phone call saying the pony has developed sweet itch. We were shocked - can a pony just "get" sweet itch?????
So after a lengthy phone call she said she wanted us to have the pony back, I had been as understanding as poss on the phone but i said we couldnt take the pony back. They never why we were selling her, and knew everything about the ponies mites, and all her history
then today the lady has been calling and texting me saying i should re-consider taking the pony back (ie - refund them) because they were sold a
"safe and sound" pony and the sweet itch that has developed is an "un-soundness" so they deserve there money back! apparently the pony was itchy so when there child was riding her she went to lie down, so the child climbed off, and the pony nibbled her itch - but the said she was dangerous!!! she has never ever been a dangerous pony, and has never in her life bucked, kicked, reared, bolted etc.
they said they would take legal action but the pony never ever ever ever had sweet itch, she did loads of competitions last year, she lived out , we are still in contact with her old owner and she insists that she never had sweet itch. Our friends and instructors would verify this.
Now i dont want to fall out with the ponies new owners but obviously they dont believe us. (which i can kind of understand why) but if she did have sweet itch and was trying to hide it we would have sold her in winter - not in may! and we would have sold her for cheaper in the hope she wouldnt asked to be vetted - we have only been very open and honest - in belief we were finding a fab home her our pony!
Anyway - we can not take the pony back,
A, it was my step daughters pony so she had all the money from teh pony to buy what i mentioned above - so she has no money to buy her back (nore do I. As mentioned she is my step daughter)
B, she was sold so i didnt have to look after a pony whilst she is moving away to college
C, she was outgrown
D, We have recently moved yards to our own private yard where i have my yearling COLT (the pony we sold was a mare) and my other gelding
If it was possible we would let the pony come home, but the next thing is we sold her without a sweet itch allergy! The fact she had developed this now has baffled us all!
I must say that we live high up near the pennines so maybe the flies/wind/ climate helped this situation but at camp in the stabled last year she never itched! Ive googled it and apparently horses can just develop this at any time, - which im shocked by. I spoke to the sweet itch centre and its not un-common.
So where do i stand - or should i say where does my step daughter stand?
p.s - the ponys passport and receipt was all in my step daughters name. and the receipt said sold as seen, tried , tested and vetted!
my 16yr old step daughter sold her pony 5 weeks ago, (she was a fab 1st/2nd pony) she had had her for just over a year and did a bit of everything, SJ, XC, PC, etc, and due to her going to back to live at her mums for a few months after xmas we put her out on loan - we went to see her whilst out on loan and she didnt look in as good condition as we sent her in - she wasnt bad - but just not the same, they had hunted her, but not clipped her, and she looked a bit "tired" even thou she was only 8yrs old. When she returned home to us we clipped her and she had TERRIBLE mites all over her, it took a good 2 months to get her skin back to normal.
Anyway my step daughter decided with her GSCE's coming up, and the fact she wants to go to racing college and that she had outgrown her 13.2hh pony to sell her.
We found a great home for her, they tried her, 5* vetted her by the BEST vets as poss (even though she wasnt expensive), etc and she went to her new home 5 weeks ago. We sent everything the pony owned, and it was a distressing sale.
Weve had a few emails about how well shes settled in and we were over the moon we found a great home for our loved pony. They were having lessons on her, rode her down the busiest roads in heavy traffic etc. and we generally pleased with her.
My step daughter has since spent her money from the pony on a scooter, and lessons, and getting her license along with new things for college - (racing wear etc)
and on friday i had a phone call saying the pony has developed sweet itch. We were shocked - can a pony just "get" sweet itch?????
So after a lengthy phone call she said she wanted us to have the pony back, I had been as understanding as poss on the phone but i said we couldnt take the pony back. They never why we were selling her, and knew everything about the ponies mites, and all her history
then today the lady has been calling and texting me saying i should re-consider taking the pony back (ie - refund them) because they were sold a
"safe and sound" pony and the sweet itch that has developed is an "un-soundness" so they deserve there money back! apparently the pony was itchy so when there child was riding her she went to lie down, so the child climbed off, and the pony nibbled her itch - but the said she was dangerous!!! she has never ever been a dangerous pony, and has never in her life bucked, kicked, reared, bolted etc.
they said they would take legal action but the pony never ever ever ever had sweet itch, she did loads of competitions last year, she lived out , we are still in contact with her old owner and she insists that she never had sweet itch. Our friends and instructors would verify this.
Now i dont want to fall out with the ponies new owners but obviously they dont believe us. (which i can kind of understand why) but if she did have sweet itch and was trying to hide it we would have sold her in winter - not in may! and we would have sold her for cheaper in the hope she wouldnt asked to be vetted - we have only been very open and honest - in belief we were finding a fab home her our pony!
Anyway - we can not take the pony back,
A, it was my step daughters pony so she had all the money from teh pony to buy what i mentioned above - so she has no money to buy her back (nore do I. As mentioned she is my step daughter)
B, she was sold so i didnt have to look after a pony whilst she is moving away to college
C, she was outgrown
D, We have recently moved yards to our own private yard where i have my yearling COLT (the pony we sold was a mare) and my other gelding
If it was possible we would let the pony come home, but the next thing is we sold her without a sweet itch allergy! The fact she had developed this now has baffled us all!
I must say that we live high up near the pennines so maybe the flies/wind/ climate helped this situation but at camp in the stabled last year she never itched! Ive googled it and apparently horses can just develop this at any time, - which im shocked by. I spoke to the sweet itch centre and its not un-common.
So where do i stand - or should i say where does my step daughter stand?
p.s - the ponys passport and receipt was all in my step daughters name. and the receipt said sold as seen, tried , tested and vetted!