I was recently told about an amazing gel pad that goes on the top of your saddle and gives the feeling of being sticky and when you sit on it it is amazing, helps to keep your position and you stay put. Its not a toal cure but it helps. Sadly we cant all be experts and in my daughters case she has severe dyslexica and her balance is a problem. It would also be good for hunting or to be honest anything that involves riding, even just hacking. I bought it from Horse health under for rider section. Just thought would say as very impressed with it !!!!