frankieman
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Ok, so almost a year ago my Mum put an advert up on a horse website, looking for somebody who would exercise one or two of our ponies, who we used in the summer for riding holidays, but we're left useless in the Winter, and so a girl one year older than me started riding him, with no like, contract nor official loaning or share or whatever. Then a few months later, she asked if her friend could come too, my Mum initially said no, but then agreed as we had another horse who needed more work. So i started riding with them, getting to know them and we've been good friends, and now i've been left to sort out when they come and what we do and am pretty much responsible for me, my horse, two girls and two horses, :s
But recently, a mutual friend of ours told me that they've been bitching about me? Saying things about me, to each other and stuff, and until this, i thought we we're good friends? And i believe this friend 100% she is a really good friend of mine, (btw, she doesn't get involved with the bitching, i've asked her not to say anything)
And they've been doing dangerous things, like cantering a few strides down a tarmac road, and letting them bolt over jumps around the school without fixing it, and sitting on them without a hat tied up, and just loads of silly things, which i kinda get blamed/feel responsible for?
We've also become quite a big part of an online community of videos, and they always talk about how much they love these horses and stuff, and, i've become a big part of it now too!
They've been quite rude to me too, i was talking to my Mum, who's distanced herself from them now, and she said that they shouldn't be rude to me, and that if i wanted to stop them coming for whatever reason i could ask her too, she doesn't like them much, and my sister and cousin ride the horses now too so, its not like we need them?
But if i do ask for them to stop coming, what about the online stuff? People will hate me? They'll hate me? But what do i do? Sometimes i can't stand them, sometimes they make me want to cry!
What do you think? Please help, sorry it's so long. :s
But recently, a mutual friend of ours told me that they've been bitching about me? Saying things about me, to each other and stuff, and until this, i thought we we're good friends? And i believe this friend 100% she is a really good friend of mine, (btw, she doesn't get involved with the bitching, i've asked her not to say anything)
And they've been doing dangerous things, like cantering a few strides down a tarmac road, and letting them bolt over jumps around the school without fixing it, and sitting on them without a hat tied up, and just loads of silly things, which i kinda get blamed/feel responsible for?
We've also become quite a big part of an online community of videos, and they always talk about how much they love these horses and stuff, and, i've become a big part of it now too!
They've been quite rude to me too, i was talking to my Mum, who's distanced herself from them now, and she said that they shouldn't be rude to me, and that if i wanted to stop them coming for whatever reason i could ask her too, she doesn't like them much, and my sister and cousin ride the horses now too so, its not like we need them?
But if i do ask for them to stop coming, what about the online stuff? People will hate me? They'll hate me? But what do i do? Sometimes i can't stand them, sometimes they make me want to cry!
What do you think? Please help, sorry it's so long. :s