Ginn
Well-Known Member
It is a well known fact on here that there is a wealth of experience to be had - the difficult bit is often deciding which bits of advice to consider further and which to put aside and I think some recent posts have shown this.
Anyways, without getting into a debate, and I am now not going to jump in and say anything unless a specific question is asked, I am looking to those of you with experience with youngsters who have followed my progress with Tilly over the last 18 months to tell me (brutally?) and honestly what you feel about the way I am bringing her on, and what you would change if you were in my position.
Obviously I want to get it right with her, she is a person who I completely adore and plan to keen with me for the rest of her life so I don't want to make mistakes!!!
Now obviously everyone has different views and opinions, it is one of the things I love about this forum, so clearly I cannot follow everyones advice but I am looking for other peoples experience to either correct me if you feel I am going wrong and reassure me where I am getting it right!!!
I'll also add that I'm not including any info on us as I feel that there is so much to say only those who have followed our progress and understand what, why and how we have got to where we are now to comment though I would be happy to pm newer members with further details. Also, for anyone concerned that I am to young/novice/inexperienced to be doing what I am doing I'd just like to say that you may well be right but I have an extensive network of support around me, including an instructor who specialises in youngsters and problem horses and an excellent dressage trainer to make sure that the riding is up to scratch when the time comes to ride her. And I have plenty of experienced horse friends on hand to give me their two pence worth where needed.
Sorry for the ramble
I guess part of my is looking for some support that I am getting it right and part of me realises that maybe Im not in which case I need a kick in the right direction....
Anyways, without getting into a debate, and I am now not going to jump in and say anything unless a specific question is asked, I am looking to those of you with experience with youngsters who have followed my progress with Tilly over the last 18 months to tell me (brutally?) and honestly what you feel about the way I am bringing her on, and what you would change if you were in my position.
Obviously I want to get it right with her, she is a person who I completely adore and plan to keen with me for the rest of her life so I don't want to make mistakes!!!
Now obviously everyone has different views and opinions, it is one of the things I love about this forum, so clearly I cannot follow everyones advice but I am looking for other peoples experience to either correct me if you feel I am going wrong and reassure me where I am getting it right!!!
I'll also add that I'm not including any info on us as I feel that there is so much to say only those who have followed our progress and understand what, why and how we have got to where we are now to comment though I would be happy to pm newer members with further details. Also, for anyone concerned that I am to young/novice/inexperienced to be doing what I am doing I'd just like to say that you may well be right but I have an extensive network of support around me, including an instructor who specialises in youngsters and problem horses and an excellent dressage trainer to make sure that the riding is up to scratch when the time comes to ride her. And I have plenty of experienced horse friends on hand to give me their two pence worth where needed.
Sorry for the ramble